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elysee24

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Questions you don't like people to ask
« on: June 30, 2011, 09:43:46 am »
The other day when I was listening to the radio station and people were talking about that they don't feel comfortable people ask how much they make or how much they weight!! How about you?!
To me, I don't like people ask me questions about my relationship/marriage, not like my relationship/marriage isn't going well, just don't feel it's their business to ask or talk!!

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2011, 10:51:27 am »
No it doesn't bother me to be asked about my marriage b/c were very happy.  Just don't like giving out personal info lik DOB, SS stuff like that.   :wave:

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #2 on: June 30, 2011, 11:06:11 am »
I don't like questions about income, either.  I'm not in a relationship, so I don't have to worry about prying relationship questions.

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #3 on: June 30, 2011, 11:20:59 am »
How come you do not have any kids yet?

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #4 on: June 30, 2011, 12:44:42 pm »
I don't like people asking about my parenting habits or skills. I am not the perfect parent but for God's sake I don't abuse them I don't neglect them so STOP CALLING CPS ON ME PEOPLE. Okay I'm a little emotional lol I have had cps called on my 3 times in the last few months because people like to use the government system to harass me. My children are going the harassment as well and it's very frustrating that cps sees but won't acknowledge the fact that these are false reports.

So at the moment I hate cps with a passion and I'm sick and damn tired of having them come in my home and belittle me and cut me down and it burns me up to have them even set eyes on my children who don't deserve to go through this.


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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #5 on: July 01, 2011, 08:56:44 am »
I just moved to Kansas City and I hate it when beggars approach asking for money. I never give it to them. Most just want to get drunk and some want to get even drunker than they already are. There otta be a law to keep these people off the street. Help is available, they just don't want it because they can't drink in the shelters.

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #6 on: July 01, 2011, 09:04:26 am »
I don't like when people ask me when am I getting married and having kids.  I don't want to do either. 

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #7 on: July 01, 2011, 09:37:33 am »
First off I have to say this: Hi, Sherene!!!! Long time no see, I've missed your insight. ;)

Now to the question. I don't like people who ask me my income or make snide remarks like "You must not be worried like other people are because I know you make LOTS of coin doing what you do." They know nothing about me, what it took to get me where I am today, or the fact my income is used more to help others than it is for myself and things I 'want'.

The second one I always get? "So, when are YOU getting married again?" As if I cannot be happy, fulfilled, and perfectly content without a man in my life. :P

edited to take out the really ignorant "hope all is well with your family" in regard to shernajwine and all the problems she has had forced on her. I realized just HOW ignorant it sounded in light of what you have been going through and I apologize for writing that. I was just so happy to see you.
« Last Edit: July 03, 2011, 03:44:49 pm by jordandog »
You are entitled to your own opinion, but you are not entitled to your own facts.

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #8 on: July 02, 2011, 01:10:09 am »
Questions I don't like people to ask....... questions I don't know the answers to. haha  :P I don't like stupid questions. If someone asks me something that's not their business to know the answers to, then I just don't tell them. No big deal really. But if they continue to ask, I may just have to shut 'em up in a not-so-polite fashion.  ;)

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #9 on: July 02, 2011, 04:37:21 am »
I don't like it when people ask questions like   "How much did that cost"    "What store did you get that at"  "Why do you shop there"

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #10 on: July 02, 2011, 06:15:03 am »
I really hate it when people ask questions that are deeply personal to me. It's like they do it deliberately to throw you off. I feel deeply violated by that type of behavior and I am quite likely to respond with anger. No one has the right to probe you. I've seen people do that for their own amusement. It's disgusting! I have also had the experience of a person asking questions that they know are totally embarrassing to you in front of people. Here's an example. My hair was really short and I didn't like it. I had some hair extensions put in while my hair was growing, I'm in class and of all people the professor says "Where did you get all of that hair" he said that in front of about 30 people in class. I said "From the store" and turned the tables on him. He was completely inappropriate and tried to humiliate me in front of the whole class. I didn't know him he was just a teacher.

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #11 on: July 02, 2011, 06:53:23 am »
I don't like questions about my age or weight. Age is just a number. I look young for my age.

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #12 on: July 02, 2011, 07:24:03 am »
don't ask about income. I am the same person, with or without money.

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #13 on: July 02, 2011, 07:32:11 am »
OMG THIS REMINDS ME OF A STORY - Kind of related to your topic I guess...so my fiance had his friend over the other day and he was telling us a story about this girl we know...they were over there smoking crack and blah blah blah he says.."it's not like you're pregnant or something.."  and her boyfriend says, "actually, she is, but she's going to quit soon."  WTF is wrong with people...I don't even agree with pregnant people smoking cigs when they are pregnant, let alone CRACK...are you stupid?

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Re: Questions you don't like people to ask
« Reply #14 on: July 03, 2011, 05:53:54 am »
i hate when people ask about religion or politics..... it can never really end well can it?

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