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nisha1010

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For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« on: June 26, 2011, 09:18:14 am »
I started dating after 12 years of staying single.  But any guy I went out with would want to sleep with me on the third or the fourth date.  This is ridiculous.  Whatever happened to waiting for a while - its completely turned me off and I am back to being single for now.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2011, 03:34:18 pm »
What you did was stereotype men based on the experience you had with some.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2011, 11:57:16 pm »
I'm 24yrs old and single as well. Women in my area and around my age seems to be too immature for me. I don't think I will have the opportunity to find someone to love and grow old together. Its all a dream that may never come true. Good luck in your search and I wish you the best :)
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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #3 on: June 27, 2011, 05:58:32 am »
Don't classify a whole gender like that, Just b/c you're mad at a few of the douchebags. What if they say "For women it's never love, but money"?? That is also incorrect. Also many of the women are just looking for a hookup too, so it's hard  for guys to know who wants what. Give them a break.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #4 on: June 27, 2011, 01:49:11 pm »
I've been with my fiancee for over two years. We've never had sex. There are a lot of virtuous guys out there.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #5 on: June 27, 2011, 03:23:17 pm »
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I started dating after 12 years of staying single.  But any guy I went out with would want to sleep with me on the third or the fourth date.  This is ridiculous.  Whatever happened to waiting for a while - its completely turned me off and I am back to being single for now.

You suffer from being attracted to douchebags. I dunno where you're meeting them, but I see this with a lot of women. Granted men are lustful from the get-go, the 'professionals' have standards. Hunt for those ones.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #6 on: June 28, 2011, 12:19:42 am »
Thank goodness you respect yourself. Those guys just make it easy to weed out the a$$holes and find the real gentlemen. Don't worry, there are plenty of good guys out there, you just have to find the right one :) It's a matter of how you project yourself. Douches like easy girls, the good guys want girls that they have to work for. Respect yourself, and they will respect you back.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #7 on: June 28, 2011, 12:29:50 am »
As a member of the male species, I'd like to apologize to you for all of the "humping dogs" in the world. However, we men are only human and sometimes get our signals all confused with many women. Some are just looking to hookup with someone while others are looking for true love. It really all depends where you're meeting these guys which will determine the outcome. Don't let a few bad apples completely turn you away from finding true love.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #8 on: June 28, 2011, 01:33:22 am »
I agree it is true for a lot of men........BUT; there are some really great guys out there!  Just hang on to your principles and he will come along! ;)

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #9 on: June 28, 2011, 03:53:12 am »
its is always lust because their scared to commit

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #10 on: June 29, 2011, 07:58:40 pm »
I disagree. Some men have mastered the art of loving from the heart and giving the utmost respect to women.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #11 on: June 29, 2011, 09:48:02 pm »
Douchebags exist in both sexes, among those who are not ready to settle or who have no desire to contain their hormones.  I was a douchebag before I met my husband, and even in those early days.  You can't judge a library based on a book or two on the shelves, and some books, though offensive on the outside, may be a great read.



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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #12 on: June 30, 2011, 10:26:24 am »
Douchebags exist in both sexes, among those who are not ready to settle or who have no desire to contain their hormones.  I was a douchebag before I met my husband, and even in those early days.  You can't judge a library based on a book or two on the shelves, and some books, though offensive on the outside, may be a great read.

Amen! 

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #13 on: June 30, 2011, 11:23:50 am »
Some men are just like that.  You should continue to date because not all men are like that.

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Re: For men Its never Love - its always Lust
« Reply #14 on: June 30, 2011, 11:34:08 am »
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you still are a douchebag amyrouse for saying $400 a week is like small fortune

She's furthest from being a dbag.


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