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lynn426

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Do you like who you are as a person? why or why not?
« on: May 09, 2011, 07:13:31 am »
I struggle with my self image on a daily basis. Its hard being medium frame as a woman. But, i feel being  different is what makes us who we are today as individuals.

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Re: Do you like who you are as a person? why or why not?
« Reply #1 on: May 09, 2011, 08:32:00 am »
I like myself but I don't have the same confidence that others will like me. I struggle with normal conversation and making friends so I basically have had the same few friends for a long time and a very long term boyfriend. It is hard for me to open up and speak my mind that is why the computer is so much nicer I can think about what I say before I say it, be anonymous and take as much time as I want. I think I am funny, kind, generous, creative and smart. I just have a hard time showing others and if I could change one thing it would be having better conversational ability.

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« Reply #2 on: May 09, 2011, 05:51:01 pm »
I do and i dont. I do because thats who i am and i cant change that and i accomplished a lot. cant just throw it all away. And i dont cause i did so many bad things that i wish i could take back

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« Reply #3 on: May 09, 2011, 07:20:39 pm »
I like exactly who I am, I am a poor dresser, not very stylish but I would do anything for a friend or family or someone I see on the street who needs help. Some may look down on me but I just smile at them, because I couldn't care what they think.

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Re: Do you like who you are as a person? why or why not?
« Reply #4 on: May 10, 2011, 10:39:32 am »
There are a few things I could change but overall yes I like myself.

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Re: Do you like who you are as a person? why or why not?
« Reply #5 on: May 10, 2011, 12:06:19 pm »
Thats very good question! Who am I? First thing is good, I don't hate myself but it doesn't mean I am a perfect or ideal and I love myself or selfish. I totally know I have defects and the same time good sides as well. And I never judge someone because that person does laugh loud, talkative, ugly, quiet, slow, smart, silly, crying or do not dress nice. I try to see the inside the person, external look usually can be fake. Everyone does mistake, no is a perfect.
Second, its important just be yourself, if you don't want to change the some sides in yourself, you don't have to push yourself to do that. But third, its good if your strive to improve yourself, that makes you feel good and proud of yourself. I have been still working to improve myself, try to see my self with others eyes-" How I look  for other people if I do that?" "What I do if this happens?", " How to keep it cool in this situation?" and etc. Its not easy but YOU CAN DO IT!   :thumbsup:

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« Reply #6 on: May 10, 2011, 01:19:30 pm »
I think everyone should love themselves. cause if you dont you can never love someone else

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« Reply #7 on: May 10, 2011, 01:54:07 pm »
Yes, I love who I am as a person. I love people. Love to talk to anyone. I have grown stronger over the years. My attitude has not always been great but I can say iv came a lond way now. Im amable to listen to others much better. I enjoy life and my family. Everyday I dont wait on someone to make me happy. I decide that no one is going to steal my joy.

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« Reply #8 on: May 10, 2011, 02:53:26 pm »
Remember God created us all different, all unique, there is no set standard to the way we should look, God made us individuals. to look a certain way is someone elses standard, Be happy with what God created you to be and don't try to be someone you are not, chances are the person is also trying to be someone else too.

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Re: Do you like who you are as a person? why or why not?
« Reply #9 on: May 10, 2011, 03:51:07 pm »
Remember God created us all different, all unique, there is no set standard to the way we should look, God made us individuals. to look a certain way is someone elses standard, Be happy with what God created you to be and don't try to be someone you are not, chances are the person is also trying to be someone else too.
Do you like who you are as a person?????? IN general????? simply yes or no

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« Reply #10 on: May 10, 2011, 03:51:58 pm »
Yes, I love who I am as a person. I love people. Love to talk to anyone. I have grown stronger over the years. My attitude has not always been great but I can say iv came a lond way now. Im amable to listen to others much better. I enjoy life and my family. Everyday I dont wait on someone to make me happy. I decide that no one is going to steal my joy.
Yay!!! ...hugs to my fcers for participating...

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« Reply #11 on: May 10, 2011, 03:52:59 pm »
I think everyone should love themselves. cause if you dont you can never love someone else
Yay!!!! Thanks for answering the question freely and honestly...Hugsss

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« Reply #12 on: May 10, 2011, 03:55:35 pm »
There are a few things I could change but overall yes I like myself.
Thanks again for answering honestly, and correctly....That grants you a big hug...

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« Reply #13 on: May 10, 2011, 03:58:44 pm »
I like myself but I don't have the same confidence that others will like me. I struggle with normal conversation and making friends so I basically have had the same few friends for a long time and a very long term boyfriend. It is hard for me to open up and speak my mind that is why the computer is so much nicer I can think about what I say before I say it, be anonymous and take as much time as I want. I think I am funny, kind, generous, creative and smart. I just have a hard time showing others and if I could change one thing it would be having better conversational ability.
Well, Diala....you are once courageous person, heres a hug, for  being open and honest ....thanks for participating in my  forum post.

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