should women go to bed with men on the first date? and why?

[lwill143]

no keep them waiting. b/c it'sworth the wait

[cubarican210]

Nope! Because it goes against my morals.

[footemama]

I don't think so. I think that sex is too intimate for a first date kind of situation. It should definitely be much farther down the road in the relationship.

[Azanne07]

And from the opposite side of the spectrum. I had sex on the first date. just sorta happened but we are still together and we are expecting our second child and getting married next year. we have been together for a little over 4 years and its great!!!!

[lynn426]

I feel a woman should give it about 6 months before sleeping with a man . It allows you space to feel that person out. and to check out his character and health folder.. Just my opinion. 

[ghunter]

No! No! Why give them the dessert before they have tried the cooking.  LOL  Young women remember keep your dress down, make him earn that respect and he will respect you for it.

[Valerie1979]

really?  we have to ask this?
I definately don't think 1st date is the best plan

[edominik]

Good question......  No, if this a real first date where you are still learning about each other.   Yes, if it is one of those "first dates" where you actually have known each other for a long time.   Kind of like a year or two of friendship, then you decide to actually date.   

My wife and I broke all the rules on this though.........  now happily married for 5 years.   We both knew the other one was going to be a keeper.   LOL

[shalah]

 :)Personally, I wouldn't. I believe you should get to know someone before you hop in bed with them. My husband and I waited before having sex. We think it was worth it but it really depends on the people. I believe if your honest and show respect for each other from the getgo than you will have a better relationship. I guess it really depends on what your both wanting out of the relationship.

[home_teachin]

I wouldn't personally do it. It depends on what you want though. If you are on vacation or something and just want sex, go for it. If it's someone you like and think you may stay with for awhile, wait.

[cloudsoup]

if you're looking for an actual relationship
with the person, no. that's probably the stupidest
move you could make. they're going to expect
it from you from that point on...

i wouldn't do it, but then again i've never wanted
an empty relationship with someone based solely
on physical contact either. some people prefer that 

[raven1114]

eh, i think adults can do what they want. dh and i had sex on the first date and we've been together for 13 years now.

[elysee24]

I wonder if you sleep with someone on the first date and how long the relationship can least?!

[lwill143]

And from the opposite side of the spectrum. I had sex on the first date. just sorta happened but we are still together and we are expecting our second child and getting married next year. we have been together for a little over 4 years and its great!!!!

congratulations

[LilyLilac]

Do we really need to ask ourselves this question? No, of course not.