should women go to bed with men on the first date? and why?

[wishingstar2]

no thats not cool

[wishingstar2]

hmm

[Arellano760]

I do think they should because they need a little sleep on there first date and i bet they get all tired of al that funthe have on the date.

[mx3madman]

That would be a big mistake if your looking for a serious relationship, Otherwise there are not many people who do it...

[sassy79]

No, it's dangerous in this day and age. It's against my morals. It's worth the wait. That's how diseases spread. Hello unplanned pregnancy with no clue who the baby daddy is (time to call Maury). . . stepping off the soap box now

The only way I can see it is if you have known the person for a while and it's only your first technical date.

[Boise40]

I wouldn't sleep with the woman on our 1st date unless she makes the 1st move. Otherwise, I can just wait until she is ready because I'm not in it for just sex.

[sommap]

No, especially not in this day and age.

[sassyhothead]

No a women should not go to bed with a men until much later. But I also think it is wrong to go to bed until after your married.

[bigstarr53]

No, plain and simple. If you want to have a negative label hanging over your head, then feel free then!

[swv]

I don't think they should but it does happen of course. I say make them respect you and wait it out!

[mommagoes]

i don't think it is a good idea but will not judge those who do. in my first relationship i made my boyfriend wait almost 3 years before we became intimate and were broken up about 2 months later. a few years later, after a few casual relationships but no intimacy i was out for a friends bachelorette party, was kinda tipsy and i met a guy. we hooked up, me knowing it was not a good idea but also knowing that it would not lead to anything and dismissing it as a one night stand (not necessarily a "healthy" thing but at least i was aware of the cirumstances and potential consequences.) but imagine my surprise when he called me the next morning to ask me out to lunch. lunch turned into dinner the next day, 2 dates the following weekend, and 3 months of dating without any intimate encounters. we had such a connection the night we met that "giving him the milk" did not stop him from "buying the cow" because 2 years later we were married and now have 2 kids together and are very happy~!   

[Bobbydragons]

I really don't have a option on it cuz I think its the women s choice cuz all women are different!

[Ittai]

no..personally..i think it should not be on the 1st date. I feel that sex is more serious than anything. You got STD and the risk of kids.

[BK_Adores_Chase]

You know, it's weird, when I was a teenager I didn't really care and usually did the deed on the first date but when I met my now fiance I waited - makes no sense.  If I were to go on dates now, I'd say I would definitly wait.

[lgemini]

I think if you go to bed on the first date make sure you are getting paid first.    You should try to get to know the person before you go to bed.   Maybe about five to six dates.