It's been 18 years. The past two years with his moods, OMG. We are never comfortable, he is hot and I am cold or vise versa. Today he forgets, as usual that I am cooking something in the oven, he turns it off opens the windows. Ok no biggy. I remind him that I was cooking and then I put on a light jacket and came back to the computer. Wow. He shuts the window, turns his movie off and goes to bed. What is going on with him? Do men go through a stage like menopause? He is so grouchy, and moody. Do you think black cohash will work for him? Those of you that have been married for awhile, How do you deal with this stuff. I want to set him in a corner until he can play nice.