What is your defination about perfect relationship?

[kdad64]

One of the hardest questions to answer because I think everyone's definition would differ and in major ways. Even though I'm a guy, I appreciate things like hugging, kissing, snuggling,etc.
I do believe honesty is very important,however, and that all starts from the beginning. Tell your potential mate what you are looking for. If they tell you that they are able to "work" with you, be careful. If they're looking for something similar, go for it. I have been in many relationships where my mate has "written a check that their behind can't/won't cash". Never get involved if you don't have similar viewpoints on a relationship. I am currently with someone whom I was friends with for three or four years, she knew me as well as anybody possibly could've, knew was I was looking for & figured she could bluff her way through it. As you might suspect, we are not doing too good right now. This has shown a lack of honesty and with the way the human mind can work sometimes thinking your mate as being a dishonest person makes you wonder about things especially when things get sour.
Long story short: keep it real.
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[mc1219]

It's all about timing. You have to learn to take things slow. Let them progress and build in a natural companionate, gradual manner. Learning to truly care for another will bring about a feeling of cherishing this person which will in turn allow them to fully admire and appreciate you, eventually leading to them cherishing you as well.

[mskelle]

No perfect relationships, just progress relationships.  I have someone who is self-centered and self-righteous and it is very hard to deal with him.  I have been married to him for over 7 years and I want out!  I try to communicate, but if its not about him or his job, we don't talk.  They say if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.  Well I seem to be mum and just don't talk anymore. 

[samxavior198]

A perfect relationship is one that doesn't exist. You cannot have or will ever find a relationship that's perfect. If it is, then you're lying to yourself; there's something bad hidden between the people.

[workmama]

Just my opinions
for the perfect relationship:
1) Dont try to change your mate  2) Dont get married remain friends 3) live common law 4) Dont have any kids 5) Dont have joint property or accounts 5) Communicate daily 6) Express love and affection 7) Compromise

I have to disagree with 2,3,4,and 5. What is your point of having any kind of relationship?  It sounds like "be with someone, just not too close". How can you ever truly love someone you don't let into your heart? Plus, children are gifts of love and God and to have them is the greatest joy. Loving someone is sharing and becoming ONE with that person.
I think a perfect relationship is real. I experience it everyday. Most people go their whole lives and never truly fall in love or find their soul mate. I thank God everyday that I have. Feeling your spouse when you are apart, as if they are right next to you, is the greatest feeling. Before I met my husband, life was cold and useless. I become selfish and rude. When you find someone who truly loves you, you change and look at life in a whole different perceptive.  It is great to have someone that you know will never leave your side.
If you have found your soul mate, then you have found the perfect relationship...in the common sense that your spirit and soul soars to unknown places of pure love that you have never experienced in life before.      

[oonamas]

My definition of the perfect relationship is to be happy. It's so easy to get mad and to cling to that emotion, but it feels so much better to laugh. Whenever the hubs and I start to have an argument, if one of us laughs at something silly about the argument it turns the whole thing around. We're able to giggle, and then calmly sort out the problem and move on - happily!

[workmama]

My definition of the perfect relationship is to be happy. It's so easy to get mad and to cling to that emotion, but it feels so much better to laugh. Whenever the hubs and I start to have an argument, if one of us laughs at something silly about the argument it turns the whole thing around. We're able to giggle, and then calmly sort out the problem and move on - happily!

I like that! Could you imagine if everyone had your point of view? I love to laugh.....and the world should always be filled with happiness and love. 

[thtrngng]

My idea of a perfect relationship is, "DON'T ASK AND DON'T TELL".

[clickers]

The perfect relationship doesn't exist! However a couple can come real close. Respect is one of the key components to it. You would find when there is mutual respect everything `else falls into place like communication & trust.

[LilyLilac]

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship.  Every relationship is a work in progress.

Took the words right out of my mouth. 

[jbcratchet]

No relationship is perfect.

[mrsbluesmith]

Quit watching soap operas - There are a lot of great, meaningful, relationships - not perfect ones.

[ElleRich]

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but after being married 33 years, it takes work on both people.  Honesty and communication is of the utmost importance.  It has taken us many years to get to this point as we were both 19 years old when we married.

[sarabtrayior]

There is NO perfect relationship and if you are looking for one you will always be dissapointed... people are not perfect and if they think they are, YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH THEM... THEY WOULD BE TERRIBLY HARD TO LIVE WITH!!!