Cher and her sex changed child.

[tantricia44]

Late night I saw Cher' s Girl child transformed into a overweight homely looking guy. She really looked cute in her childhood pictures. Why would anyone go through such a drastic change just because they feel the same sex the body they were born with? Why not save monies from dangerous surgery & be a lesbian instead. Genetically, I think it was Cher' s genes fault in why her child was born this way. When I first saw Cher, I thought she was some famous drag queen on tv. Maybe she had too much testosteron & not enough estrogen. Anyway, I think it's cool that she accepted her child's wish to be come a man.


I still can't get my head over this...

FC family, what do you think? what would you decide if your child comes to you wishing to drastically  change from a womon to man. What would you do?

[colecole]

who is cher??? 

[gaylasue]

After I'm picked up off of the floor from passing out, I would get on my knees and pray!!!

[briannajeanxo]

i have no idea what i would do! id be shocked but wouldnt want them to change. they were born to be that gender..id want them to stay that gender..

[go4thegold]

I agree with the person above me, I wouldn't knw what to do I would really try and talk them out of it, because they were born with that sex and changing it would be changing the fate God had put in their life. Plus how would that even work?? Could they still feel everything as a man than woman??

[dexterjrh]

Everyone has a decision and what they want to do. If they want to change from one thing to another, then thats all them. They are the one that has to live with the decision that they had made. As far as my child i would support them in anyway i could. Yes i would be upset, but its there decision to make, all i can do is show them i will love them no matter what.

[Mojoshog]

It does sound a little strange but if that is what makes her  happy I think that ultimately it is something that should be her choice.

[luvh8tragedy87]

I think it would be a huge adjustment but ultimately I'd want my child to be happy. I mean some people commit suicide 'cause they're not able to transition or they feel too ashamed. I'd rather have my child here and be a different sex than be dead.

[kay7]

I hadn't heard about Chastity Bono's sex change surgery but i googled it & guess its true.  I can't say that I'm surprised.  She was a darling little girl but she's been a mess as she got older.  I hope this will bring her some happiness but I'm doubtful.  If there were ever a troubled child, that was one.  I don't think you could do anything except support a child in whatever might make them whole but I would make sure they were aware that I don't think a sex change would be very beneficial.

[sassyhothead]

Who care about Cher and her daughter. We need to give them there privacy. How would we feel if people were talking about us like this behind our backs. We need to realize that sometimes what we do is real hurtful.

[yaayme]

People like Cher's daughter are mentally ill and I'm not being funny when I say this. Take Chastity's lesbian lover for instance...She's attracted to women but yet dates a woman that had a sex change to look like a man...Why not date a real man then??? The same goes for some of these gay men that date drag queens. Why not date a real woman??? They are mentally ill!...Okay, I said my piece and I don't care who doesn't agree with me but it's the truth.

[Huwee]

Yaayme!....your so right....they are ill....it makes no sense for a sex change....i agree with Yaayme period

[GenghisKhan44]

In Al-Anon, we are taught a simple prayer:

God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things we cannot change,
the courage to change the things we can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.

If our child is an adult, we cannot change their minds. We can lock them up in their rooms, beat them, punish them, disown them. It won't change their desire to do it. Only they can choose not to.

But we can change other things. We can show them we don't approve of their lifestyle, but we can still love them. We can talk to other people about it. We can even converse with God about it.

Whatever one wishes to do, it is pointless to fret about what you cannot change.When we worry about what we can't change, we try to be God. And we aren't so we end up exhausting ourselves.

Instead, ask God (as you understand Him) for strength, comfort, and peace. Ask Him for mercy, on yourself and your loved ones. And then examine and work on your own life, because that is something you can change.

This doesn't mean you have to approve of a sex change surgery, pay for it, or offer support. You can still oppose it with all of your being. But know that neither love nor hate will change the mind of your son or daughter. Nothing will except God and themselves.

So my reaction would be to love my children, but to oppose their actions. I might separate myself from my child. Lock them out of the house. Keep them away from younger children so they don't think it's acceptable. But I would still send them e-mails, letters, that only they can see and share. And I would always pray for them (or ask Our Lady and the saints to).

[yaayme]

Yaayme!....your so right....they are ill....it makes no sense for a sex change....i agree with Yaayme period

Thank you!

[vicogden]

I would support my child no matter what he/she decided to do.  Love is the only important thing.  BTW, Cher is GREAT.  A lot of people in the gay community's entertainment industry dress in drag like her simply because she supports the gay community.  But she also supports a lot of other things.  I met her at Landstuhl Regional Medical Center, Landstuhl, Germany when she came to visit the wounded warriors and hospital staff.  She gave megabucks to the Intrepid Warriors Fallen Heroes (if I remember the name right) Fund.  Anyway, the money was used to build a facility that rehabs wounded warriors from our wars that have lost limbs.  Cher also testified before Congress to get better helmets for our troops.  She is a class act.