Okay Gang, Here's where I start getting creative. Hope you all on board, and ready to go. It's May 27th, Sunday, my time (Colorado, USA). As I mentioned in my last post, my wife and I had a fantastic discussion today. And I want to share some of that with you all. Before I do, let's chat about where my wife and I are at, currently.
My wife is 4'10", 200lbs. Her goal is to get to around 140lbs, so she's got 60lbs to lose.
I am 5'6", 250lbs. My goal is to get to around 160lbs, so I have to lose about 90lbs.
You put 60 and 90 together, we could form a whole new person between us. That's sad to think about, huh? Now, I don't know what everyone's individual goals are, but I think a good TIP at this point, would be for us all to individually set a bar for ourselves. Set our own goals. Know that you'll stumble along the way, there will be times it's tough, and all that other negativity. But that's where this group comes into play. When you hit a negative wall

just come back here, and read some of our positive reinforcements messages.
Okay, so my wife and I have our goals. Now, there's a time frame by which we want to accomplish this task. Our 25th wedding anniversary is coming up on June 2013. We've only been on one Carnival Cruise in our 22 1/2 years of marriage, and our passports run out in 2013. We want to go on another cruise before they do, and it would be wonderful to do so by our 25th Anniversary. It would also be great to reach our goal by that time.
How long is that, you might ask? Well, we got April, May and June for our 23rd, and then 2 more years after that. So, if you add up the months, that's 27 months. So, we did some math. If my wife lost 2lbs a month for 27 months, that would be 54lbs. She's looking to reach 60, so that's really close. For me, I need to lose 3lbs a month, times 27 would be 81lbs. I'm looking for 90, so that's close too. Thus, our personal achievements are to lose 2 and 3 pounds a month. This should definitely be possible, but it'll take us the better part of 2 years to achieve.
So, that leads to the questions: What are your goals, and how long to you want to project to reaching them? If overnight is your time frame, you're doomed to fail. Make it reasonable, and achievable. Only you can make those decisions.
Now, wouldn't it be nice if we all could meet up on the same Carnival Cruise ship in June 2013! Just because this is our goal, doesn't mean it has to be yours. But if you can't decide, perhaps that might help as motivation. It'd be nice to meet internet strangers soon-to-be friends from Fusion Cash!
That's what we talked about. We're gonna begin Monday with our regular walking. And we'll report our progress periodically here on this thread. Tell us when you decide what goals you have in mind, how long your project to reaching them, and your plan of action for making it happen.
We'll talk again,
Mike & Carolyn