One of my biggest beefs with college is that it has made me somewhat pretentious. I'm a pretty smart cookie, and I've always been confident in that fact. Attending college, though, has ruined me in that aspect. I find myself "talking over people's heads" and making judgments on the way they spell things or if they use proper grammar. Even though I know wholeheartedly that I am no better than anyone else, I still find myself acting in that manner, dumbing down my speech and etc because I have this thought constantly in the back of my mind that I'm smarter than the other person. The thing is, though, does it really matter in the long run? Especially when that other person with the high school diploma is making double or triple what I make in a year? And that person is my boss or my trainer?
What matters in the long run is doing what makes you happy. I study and read and learn everyday because I'm a perpetual geek and I love to learn. I also love to play with my daughter and spend time with my husband. I'm constantly on the lookout for coupons and deal savers and free things we can do as a family. When we want to do something like go to the aquarium or the museum, we save up for it and make it a special occasion. Many times we'll invite a large group of people to go with us and get a group discounted rate.
What I'm saying here is that going to college is not a guarantee of making a great deal of money, and making a great deal of money is not the ticket to happiness. You make that yourself in how you respond to what you have, because nothing and everything is a gift. Take it from someone who busted her
to get her college paid almost in full and is still broke but happy.
...plus, I'll never admit it, but I also get a small sick satisfaction from being able to complain about how broke I am...
Plus, when you're broke, there is a smaller expectation from everyone else on your behalf when it comes to going to expensive places. Shhh... don't tell
them I told you... I'll deny every word of it!