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ButterflyWings

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Dumb People...
« on: January 31, 2011, 05:07:20 pm »
 :BangHead:How do you deal with dumb people?? :BangHead:I am having issues with some people and well I have done it all ignored,involved law,got mad and well they continue it is like a game for them and well I am tired of it..I ignore it everyday and now I am wearing thin on patience and everything else...So how would you handle it and why?? :BangHead:

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« Reply #1 on: January 31, 2011, 07:04:05 pm »
Depends on what they are doing. If it's illegal involve the police as much as you can. What are they doing to you?

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« Reply #2 on: January 31, 2011, 07:42:05 pm »
What are they doing that is angering you so much?
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« Reply #3 on: January 31, 2011, 07:58:41 pm »
My formula to deal with dumb people is just remember that dont know any better. Dont talk to them because the more you talk to them the dumber you get.

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« Reply #4 on: February 01, 2011, 10:10:30 am »
There is so much they are doing it is really ridiculous..First it started with glares and throwing objects at my car..Then rude comments on my facebook..Then they threatened to kill my family so the law was involved..Which you would think would end it but no..They purposely turn up music when I get my kids off bus..They have their kids call me names and say rude *bleep* while I wait for bus..And their kids mess with my kids..I have been called a *bleep* and worse from their children..Ugh K all I can say is the law talks but nothing more and I am really tired of the immature ignorant BS!!

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« Reply #5 on: February 01, 2011, 12:27:23 pm »
There are always going to be dumb people doing dumb things, they can't help it, it's all they know how to do... :BangHead: isn't going to help, because then you get a headache...

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« Reply #6 on: February 01, 2011, 01:03:27 pm »
dumb people only have two ways to work with, slow and steady, or not at all. :D

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« Reply #7 on: February 01, 2011, 01:21:06 pm »
:BangHead:How do you deal with dumb people?? :BangHead:I am having issues with some people and well I have done it all ignored,involved law,got mad and well they continue it is like a game for them and well I am tired of it..I ignore it everyday and now I am wearing thin on patience and everything else...So how would you handle it and why?? BangHead

THE THING BOUT PEOPLE IS THAT THEY WANT YOU TO PAY ATTENTION TO THEM THAT'S WHY THEY ACT LIKE THAT ONLY AROUND YOU AND THIS MUST HAVE ANY IDEA THAT YOU DON'T MIND FOR THEM TO ACT THAT WHY YOU CAN BE DUMB BUT IT THERE WAY TO ACT IN A FUN WAY LET THEM BE THAT WHY BUT WHEN THEY KEEP DOING IT RECORD THEN THEM SHOE THEM HOW THEY ACT. BUT DO ITWHEN YOUR A  ALONE :thumbsup:

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« Reply #8 on: February 01, 2011, 03:47:12 pm »
There is so much they are doing it is really ridiculous..First it started with glares and throwing objects at my car..Then rude comments on my facebook..Then they threatened to kill my family so the law was involved..Which you would think would end it but no..They purposely turn up music when I get my kids off bus..They have their kids call me names and say rude *bleep* while I wait for bus..And their kids mess with my kids..I have been called a *bleep* and worse from their children..Ugh K all I can say is the law talks but nothing more and I am really tired of the immature ignorant BS!!

They are very immature, and it is great that you are being the bigger person, and not doing immature things back. Don't worry about them, they will get it back, it is called Karma. And if the Law is not helping, you should continue to try to get something from them until they help. That is what they are there for. Harassment is against the law, and they certainly should not be bringing your kids into it.
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« Reply #9 on: February 01, 2011, 11:40:00 pm »
It's not what they do that upsets you. It's your own reactions to what they do upset you. Change your reactions, you will change the consequence.

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« Reply #10 on: February 01, 2011, 11:56:32 pm »
There is so much they are doing it is really ridiculous..First it started with glares and throwing objects at my car..Then rude comments on my facebook..Then they threatened to kill my family so the law was involved..Which you would think would end it but no..They purposely turn up music when I get my kids off bus..They have their kids call me names and say rude *bleep* while I wait for bus..And their kids mess with my kids..I have been called a *bleep* and worse from their children..Ugh K all I can say is the law talks but nothing more and I am really tired of the immature ignorant BS!!

If they hurt you or your kids physically or destroy your property, definitely involve the police. I believe there are ways to block people form leaving comments on face book.

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« Reply #11 on: February 02, 2011, 05:30:08 am »
Completely drop them from your life. NO phone call, NO texting , No Going out with them. If it is as bad as you say. ELIMINATE THEM.ASAP

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« Reply #12 on: February 02, 2011, 06:31:48 am »
Completely drop them from your life. NO phone call, NO texting , No Going out with them. If it is as bad as you say. ELIMINATE THEM.ASAP

Yeah I have not spoke to them in almost 5 months and they have been eliminated..I only see and deal with stuff because my kids bus stop is in front of their house..I even tried standing further down street with kids no luck they will send their kids to aggravate me there..I would understand it continuing if I showed a reaction or retaliated or had my kids act like punks..But I have laughed,smiled to my self, ignored it and any other thing I could do to show how dumb they are and no change in their behavior..

As for facebook oh they were blocked immediately after their immature actions!! I even blocked them on my phones...The actions while they do *bleep* me off it is the fact of them allowing and encouraging their kids to do it do me and my kids then they laugh what kind of parents are these..My kids have ignored it even when I can see my older two are getting frustrated with it..My young daughter only gets her feelings hurt cause my kids use to be friends with theirs and well I was friends with the parents before I seen their true colors...I appreciate all the comments this whole thing is so silly to me and disheartening..I just want to be left alone cause they are not important to my life..Its hard when I am bombarded daily with their BS!!!

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« Reply #13 on: February 02, 2011, 09:39:50 am »
There is so much they are doing it is really ridiculous..First it started with glares and throwing objects at my car..Then rude comments on my facebook..Then they threatened to kill my family so the law was involved..Which you would think would end it but no..They purposely turn up music when I get my kids off bus..They have their kids call me names and say rude *bleep* while I wait for bus..And their kids mess with my kids..I have been called a *bleep* and worse from their children..Ugh K all I can say is the law talks but nothing more and I am really tired of the immature ignorant BS!!

Okay, so what did you do to start this war with your neighbor?  These things doesn't start just  out of nowhere.  Why do they call you and your kids names?  Why all the threats?  A lot is being left out of this story that you aren't telling on this forum.
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Re: Dumb People...
« Reply #14 on: February 02, 2011, 09:58:45 am »
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Okay, so what did you do to start this war with your neighbor?  These things doesn't start just  out of nowhere.  Why do they call you and your kids names?  Why all the threats?  A lot is being left out of this story that you aren't telling on this forum.

I just read through all this and was thinking the same thing. If there were "rude comments on your Facebook" page, you obviously 'Friended' one of them at some point, right, unless you let everyone post? Was it something between the kids that got all the 'adults' involved? I'm NOT trying to upset you, BW, but there is always 2 sides to every story - and then the truth. Avoid, ignore, and tell your kids to do the same.
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