"Breast Etiquette" - a question for the ladies...

[Falconer02]

POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...

So I was in a small situation over a month ago when I was walking near a library. About 40-50 ft from me was this lone middle-aged woman who had a blouse on and she apparently forgot to button 1 or 2 of the top buttons. That, and her bra must have been awkwardly fit because one of her *bleep* was exposed.

Now there were a few people walking around the area, but I didn't want to either shout to her or run up to her lightening fast to let her know. I just hope she felt a temp change when she entered thru the door, but needless to say I still felt really bad for not helping her out of a possibly embarrassing situation.

I talked to my friend about it and he said he actually did help a woman in a similar situation, and she actually got angry at him and stomped off. He told me I made a decent choice out of the situation, but I still disagree to an extent.

Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time? And no, it's not just for ladies to answer if you have a story of your own. I just noticed there are more woman than men on this part of the forum.

[marieelissa]

I don't know because I don't dress like that in the first place. I am always completely covered and I don't wear tight fitting stuff. I don't wear shorts or tank tops. I don't like to wear bathing suits in public. I don't wear shirts or dresses that show cleavage. In fact I don't wear skirts or dresses period. I wear Jeans and T-shirts.

I wear a belt and the only problem I have is sometimes my jeans will expose my butt. I don't know why but I always pull them up and try to not bend over or anything.

This is just how I dress in public. I have a lot of modesty but people think I have a bad body image. It's like whatever, I can dress how I want.

So sorry can't relate. I think drawing attention to it would embarrass them unless they do it on purpose. When they finally catch their wardrobe malfunction they want to believe no one noticed.

[sflynt]

Maybe the girl your friend helped wanted to show her *bleep* off. and maybe she felt insulted that he wanted her to cover it up instead of complimenting her breast. lol I dunno. Or she could have just been very embarrassed by the whole situation and wanted a quick way out of it, so she got mad and ran off..??

I personally would have been very appreciative if someone told me rather than let me walk around like that. That would be so embarrassing.  

POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies

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hahaha! There are forums where that line would work. Not on me, but others. Just sayin

[adstony]

I am a guy and I have told a few ladies about things like that before.  I have been slapped in the face before for it.  I was thanked that I told the person as they turned around real fast to button up.  Been asked if I liked them.  Then there was one time I was asked if I wanted to touch them.  To me it is very much a person to person thing.  I did have only one lady that slapped me to come back and thank me latter that she said that she at first was just thinking I was looking to get a nice view but then she relized how much was exposed and said that if she knew that it came un buttoned that much she should feel more like she was trying to show off. 

Also I have found depending how it is said helps too.  Just going up and saying hey your *bleep* are hanging out you would probly get the slap.  If you go up and say something like "Excuse me but did you know your blouse is unbuttoned" would be better. 

Last thing for my throughts on this is depends also on how they are dressed and the location they are in.  In the library for areas would have a higher chance that she is not showing off but there might be other locations where it would be.  But also if it is person walking around in somthing like fish net stokings, min skirt then that would the type that might want everyone to see all the goods.

[amyrouse]

I would be embarrassed!  I would be grateful for the heads up, but I probably wouldn't show that in my response.  I've actually told someone before that they were hanging out of their top when I was in high school in the marching band, and I was accused of staring and being a lesbian, so I tend to keep my mouth shut anymore.

[adstony]

That is one other problem with the hole thing.  By telling even nicly you cna be given lables.  I am sure that some that slaped me just thinking I was a prevert trying to get a look.  I will not denie if they are hanging out I will take a look after all I am a guy.  There is a difference in it.  How I think a respectable woman would not want to be hanging out but show what she has in a desent way that she is comfortable with.  I do like to see breast but at the same time if I do not know the person I would rather see them in a way they a comfortable to be seen in public and if the relationship gets to that level to see each other.  Public should always be clean sexy not slutty. 

Of course right now the only ones I want to see always and touch is my wonderful and sex wife.

[mollydog75]

My own opinion is if a man comes up to aide a women who's breast is hanging out or buttons are unbuttoned, He should get the heck away .Or have a female tell her.
Your asking for trouble I think if you approach and say your @#$% are hanging out
your going to get nailed
A women telling another women is not so bad (the sisterhood thing), yah know...
It would be the same senerio IF a Mans Fly is down and open-
Most woman will try to walk on by and ignore it-
It would not be me to tell any guy his fly is open.
There are people called exabisionest , "flashers"(cant spell it)they like to expose themselves who knows

[adstony]

Good point.  But it is hard to tell a nother woman to tell the person.  Unless you know that other woman to ask her to do that.  I have done that one time but the one I asked was a class mate that her and I knew each other pretty well she it was not that bad to ask her.  But she even made the coment to me that if I would asked her to tell the person and we did not know each other that she would probly tell the other woman and then tell sercurity. 

The "flashers" on the other hand most of the time for guys it's easy to see the flashers if you were to look in that area.  You would see thier member hanging out more then likly.  The women what are flashers is a little harder depending on how much of a flasher that they are.  If they just have it all hanging out then they know and they are showing.  If it is being done where it is just a few buttons then it might be harder to know if they are trying to flash or if somthing else is going on. 

I also work in an office full of woman and asked a few of thier opions and about a 50/50 on if they would want to be told by a male or not that they did not know.  All of them said that it would also depend on how the person (being male or female) said it to them.  The worst way this local check to tell them is hey your *bleep* are hanging out or somthing to that manner.  Best way is "hey X did you know your top came unbuttoned" not saying anything about the breast at all. 

[adstony]

That is one other problem with the hole thing.  By telling even nicly you cna be given lables.  I am sure that some that slaped me just thinking I was a prevert trying to get a look.  I will not denie if they are hanging out I will take a look after all I am a guy.  There is a difference in it.  How I think a respectable woman would not want to be hanging out but show what she has in a desent way that she is comfortable with.  I do like to see breast but at the same time if I do not know the person I would rather see them in a way they a comfortable to be seen in public and if the relationship gets to that level to see each other.  Public should always be clean sexy not slutty. 

Of course right now the only ones I want to see always and touch is my wonderful and sex wife.

Your sex wife? Hahaha that's a good one.

Opps mis type should have been sexy wife.

[ButterflyWings]

  I personally would want to know I would be so mortified if this happened..I do not wear alot of low cut shirts but I often do thankfully I do a breast check before leaving house LMAO..So if a person got mad I feel they wanted the attention..I would be embrassed but thankful someone let me know my boobie was hanging in the breeze for all to eyeball..LMAO..And I am sure my hubby would be thankful I was told LMAO>>

[adstony]

I even check it with my wife she said she would be embrased but would want to know if one did come unbuttoned and was showing, thankful that was told not everyone was see her's

[kingreyam24]

I know I would definitely appreciate the heads up. I would be very embarassed, but it would be much better  than walking around like that for a long time. I would think it would be like if your pants were ripped in the butt or if you had a piece of toilet paper on your shoe. I know there would be people who would get mad, but I would think that if you don't notice that your boob is hanging out, you would appreciate it if someone told you. Now if a person was purposefully wearing revealing clothing, then I wouldn't say anything. I would just be a little disgusted by the person. I just don't understand how you can not feel that your hanging out like that. 

[adstony]

Wearing the revealing clothing is one thing but if your wearing a blouse that you remember buttoning all the way up and it come unbuttoned is another.  The revealing clothing to me means that you dont mind showing cleavage or some leg.  But it's show hole breast complete bottoms or anything that is fully personnal.  There are people out there that still like the clear shirt with a colored bra for some reason.  That would be a person to me that if the clear top has buttons and it came unbuttoned some they really would not care due to the shirt shows it anyway.

[ODOMS6598]

I dont think i will ever be in that situation.  I prefer t-shirts and jeans, so as far as not having a button done.....  I would be embarassed but at the same time I would be grateful that the person said something.  that way it would only be for a little while as opposed to all day.  anyway  if it is a stranger, you will never see that person again.  also I would hope that most people check thereselves before venturing out in the "real" world.  Didnt the lady have a mirror or some "friends" to tell her??

[MommyWifey08]

maybe she did it on purpose, 

 and if your a guy you shouldnt tell a lady their boob is exposed, they may get angry or embrassed thinking you didnt like seeing their *bleep* out, or get mad because they think you were looking at their *bleep*

 women are crazzzzyyyy