Homosexuality?

[cheyanne15]

Hello I'm a teen and I was thinking
some people say that liking the opposite sex is a feeling, and as we know no one can help our feelings..so therefore it should be accepted. However someone people think that it isn't a feeling and it comes from *demons* and can be fixed
Anyone care to share there feelings and debate this 
Me personally I'm kinda undecided )x

[worthberthava17]

This is something people are born with it is not a choice. Thank about it would you chouse something that would cause you pain all your life. Your own family kicking you out. The world thanking you are a freak. Felling is not a choice. You can do nothing about it even if you want to.

[jordandog]

Well, here is a link to just one of many discussions on the subject. It is 36 pages long, so this topic has definitely been debated on here before. Personally, I have said just about all I can or will on it.

http://www.fusioncash.net/forum.php?topic=17688.0

[cheyanne15]

well I'm sorry I'm new and I didn't know that it was....
o__0

[bozenabozena]

Hello I'm a teen and I was thinking
some people say that liking the opposite sex is a feeling, and as we know no one can help our feelings..so therefore it should be accepted. However someone people think that it isn't a feeling and it comes from *demons* and can be fixed
Anyone care to share there feelings and debate this 
Me personally I'm kinda undecided )x

this is somthing that can't be change, it's the way some people born and they have to live with it and for others to accept .....

[cheyanne15]

I disagree I do not think that homosexuailty is "natural" and a person is just "born with it"
I think that media and what a person see's as a young child is what causes that.

[amyrouse]

I disagree I do not think that homosexuailty is "natural" and a person is just "born with it"
I think that media and what a person see's as a young child is what causes that.

So when did you choose to be heterosexual?

[cheyanne15]

I never chose anything. I'm speaking from personal experience...
Ok honestly I never told anyone this but once as a little child I saw these two women ^making out^ and no "homosexual" thoughts had ever occured to me UNTIL then.
So I blame the influence of media and such that put those ideas into the peoples head.

[amyrouse]

I never chose anything. I'm speaking from personal experience...
Ok honestly I never told anyone this but once as a little child I saw these two women ^making out^ and no "homosexual" thoughts had ever occured to me UNTIL then.
So I blame the influence of media and such that put those ideas into the peoples head.

When did the first heterosexual thoughts occur to you?  Was it before you ever saw a man and a woman kiss?

[cheyanne15]

It was that's how my parents rasied me. It's all over TV? A man and a woman kissing? That's when they occured. =/

[amyrouse]

It was that's how my parents rasied me. It's all over TV? A man and a woman kissing? That's when they occured. =/

Then it could be possible that heterosexuality is influenced by the media as well.

[cheyanne15]

Yep that's what I think.


Basically I would say most of the word is striaght. So that's how most people are rasied..
So honestly I have no idea what makes a person either like boys or girls :3

[amyrouse]

I didn't choose to be attracted to my husband, and the prospect of being with a female the way I am with my husband turns my stomach.

Many say we fall in love with people, so let's examine this for a minute.

A man and a woman fall in love and get married.  After 30 years of marriage, the man comes to an acceptance of a turmoil he says he has felt within him his entire life, and that while he may be anatomically male, he is emotionally a female...he feels with everything in his being that he should have been born anatomically female.  He opts to have a gender reassignment.  This, now woman, discusses the situation with the wife.  The love is still there, and the new woman still feels the same about the wife, including sexually.  How is the wife to feel?  Is her heterosexuality such a part of her that she cannot even consider being with this new woman the way she was with her husband, even though they are the same person?  Is it wrong for to feel that she can't?  So, then, is her heterosexuality a choice?

Now imagine the same situation, but with a lesbian couple and one wants gender reassignment to become anatomically male.

[Beverly10]

I never chose anything. I'm speaking from personal experience...
Ok honestly I never told anyone this but once as a little child I saw these two women ^making out^ and no "homosexual" thoughts had ever occured to me UNTIL then.
So I blame the influence of media and such that put those ideas into the peoples head.

Sorry, just gotta dispute this, my aunt is alive and well she's 97 now! She is homosexual ,get this there was little to no media in her day, no tv,pc's, laptops.There was no household plumbing. I don't think she saw or heard anything or anyone "Making out" she just is homosexual... She stayed "in the closet till the late forty's. 

[Falconer02]

Homosexuality is completely natural. I assume anyone who says otherwise has not done much research on it. Normal? No. But that's not a negative trait. It's a uniqueness in nature.