Kendra

[ULuvCeCe]

So I keep seeing the ad for her new season and one part continues to bother me, she says "I want to live my life for me".  Now I should take into consideration the context it was said in, they obviously edited it perfect for the ad but I do see her being selfish like that.  I guess she didn't get the memo that she should live her life for her son and her husband before herself.  Am I wrong in thinking that? 

[articx]

No, you're not wrong in thinking that. When people have kids, they should put their children in front of themselves.

[ninajay]

you're so right... I think it's kind of selfish. I recently saw something online about her calling herself a single mother because she has decided to move back to Los Angeles to be closer to her friends and family while her husband  stays in Minnesota to play football. I thought,  how dumb... your husband and your child are your new family and you should stay together in Minnesota... grow up

[gesus]

shes such the "bubble " head

[amyrouse]

Has anyone ever read the play "A Doll's House" by Henrik Ibsen?  Its my very favorite... it is about a woman who is married and has kids, and she makes a mistake when her husband's life is in danger in order to save him.  He treats her like a child, and their kids have a nanny.  Long story short, she makes a decision in the end to make herself better (or to live her life for her) and she rationalizes it as being for the best for everyone involved.

My point is, sometimes by living one's life for themselves, they are making the best decisions possible for their children as well.  Sometimes as a mom I find I need a break... a night to myself so I can deflate and relax so that I'm not taking any stress out on my daughter.  Me time is essential to good parenting.  There is a point where that is taken to an extreme, though.  By making the choice to have a child, I made my choice to live my life in order to do the best thing for my child.  Sometimes that requires asking my parents to babysit for a night, other times it means I go without a new outfit so that she can have her new outfit or diapers or lotion.  There is a balance... kids come first, but parents have a place in the line as well.  I hope this makes sense.

[peacesweet]

does anyone know when her new season starts

[ULuvCeCe]

does anyone know when her new season starts

It starts tomorrow night (Sunday the 7th)

[ULuvCeCe]

@amy I haven't read that I should check it out.  I do understand that parents need time to get themselves in order, a break, night out etc. but like nina said she has separated her son from his dad just to be back in LA, hencing the live my life for me I'm guessing.

Obviously none of us know their situation/what happens behind closed doors but Hank seems to be a very awesome guy and she just jumped into something w/o thinking.  She claims to be a big football gal yet she's snipping at him about living in 5 different houses in x amount of years, well duh, that's how the business goes, you go where you're traded.

I guess I'm just tired of reality show people and that commercial just needs to stop playing so I can stop being annoyed lol

[yaayme]

What were you expecting from a former Hugh Hefner *bleep*. I blame her husband. You can't make a hoe into a wife...She's a stripper party girl that had sex with an ugly nasty old man for money. Only difference between her and a prostitute is that she has her on show.