For the ladies

[Mickey001]

You can love people in many different ways.
Thats the beauty of love. Love knows no bounds.
Who's to say that one person can't love 2 people at the same time?
Maybe for one person they can, and maybe for another they can't.
I think it is possible, but they won't be equal, in how much or how strong that love is.




*Don't get me wrong here, love and lust are 2 completely different things, so please dont confuse what I'm saying* Its never right, IMO, to pine for someone else while with another*

I could not have said it any better!   

[Cuppycake]

You can love people in many different ways.
Thats the beauty of love. Love knows no bounds.
Who's to say that one person can't love 2 people at the same time?
Maybe for one person they can, and maybe for another they can't.
I think it is possible, but they won't be equal, in how much or how strong that love is.




*Don't get me wrong here, love and lust are 2 completely different things, so please dont confuse what I'm saying* Its never right, IMO, to pine for someone else while with another*

I could not have said it any better!   

Indeed! Well said sflynt!

[Hurricanekiz]

i believe it but its rare

[sflynt]

You can love people in many different ways.
Thats the beauty of love. Love knows no bounds.
Who's to say that one person can't love 2 people at the same time?
Maybe for one person they can, and maybe for another they can't.
I think it is possible, but they won't be equal, in how much or how strong that love is.




*Don't get me wrong here, love and lust are 2 completely different things, so please dont confuse what I'm saying* Its never right, IMO, to pine for someone else while with another*

I could not have said it any better!   

Indeed! Well said sflynt!

Thank you! 

[RJarrett]

Interesting question. Probably not. I myself am leaving a bad loveless marriage and am madly in love with another guy. I no longer love my husband,but the guy that I do love has a lot of problems with depression. I'm feeling really weary about getting out of one mess and possibly heading for another.

[mdacey4200]

Yes you can be. But it is not good. You should never get yourself into that position. If your LUCKY you'll end up with one of them. or they both might leave you. Be Careful!

[PMZ908]

i believe they call that a 3some lol

[frog4sel]

No, that is not possible.

SORRY I HAVE TO DISAGREE WITH THAT. IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE IN LOVE WITH TWO GUYS AT THE SAME TIME. I FIND THAT THE LOVE YOU MAY HAVE FOR ONE GUY IS MORE STRONGER THAN THAT FOR THEY OTHER GUY. I PERSONALLY FOUND THAT WHEN I WAS ONCE IN THIS SITUATION AND HAD TO MAKE A CHOOSE IT ALL BOIL DOWN TO WHICH ONE I FELT LOVE ME BACK AS MUCH AS I LOVED THEM!!

I have to agree with you!  I was in that same situation!  I had to choose between my first love who I had been with for 7 years and treated me like poo, or my now husband who was loving me for me and treated me right! At the time the decision was so hard but I am so glad I made the right choice.  I think I was just comfortable and scared of change, but change is definitly what I needed! 

[oonamas]

I think it's possible to have feelings for two guys, but if you truly loved one you wouldn't love anyone else. I was torn between two guys once - couldn't decide which I liked better. Then a third came around and now he's my husband! Taught me that if you can't decide between two, there's probably another even better that will make the choice easy.

[celinesweets]

I appreciate all the comments, I'm going to stick it out with the one i'm with for 10 yrs and he love my kids as if they were his, and he treat me like a princess. I wasn't in love with that other guy it was just a fling. I thought i was, but now i know i wasn't.

[amandadowney]

i'm having a hard enough time with the one i love to even think about being interested in another one 

[Ittai]

It depends?  I can only remember one time in my life when i was a teenager that it had happen to me, {Love at first sight!}  but here is the catch 22 so to speak!!!!>>>>> i was in love with twins . I never got with any of them but that is why i think i can happen! Now i do understand we are talking about two different people but i still think maybe it can happen to be in love with two different people at the same time! 

[lynnc35]

Nope, because it isn't love, it is a game.

[ShelbyEscalante]

Depends what type of love your talking about. In love, i dont think so but general love of course!