Lost love...

[MYKRLuciano]

What to do when you reunite with your lost love? I have a friend who is married and got reunited with his ex who he never stop loving. The chemistry is still there but both are married with problems. What should I advice them?

[Valerie1979]

this is a difficult situation.  your friend needs to decide.  if he leaves his wife, what if the other woman does not leave her husband???

[sadblueyes1]

They need to follow their head not their heart

[prillycake]

I'm gonna take a guess and say you're the "friend". I say leave the ex in the past because you are with someone new and they probably genuinely love you. An ex is an ex for a reason, it's like spoiled milk.

[tzs]

If she is still enfatuated with this lost love, why did she get married to begin with? It isn't fair to the person that she is with to hold back true feelings and waste more years of her current husband's life by staying with him. If she truly loves this dude, she needs to come clean with her husband- and move on from there.

[cloudsoup]

life is too short for regrets...

if both of their hearts are leaning in the same
direction, follow them. but do it openly and honestly,
and do what's right for the other's involved before
anything else.

if you're gonna follow your heart, atleast make sure
those left in the wake of it aren't suffering more than
they need to be. 

[MYKRLuciano]

Actually no I am not the friend. I am both of their friend and I been there for them. I am the reason they found eachother on a gathering. And oh boy they ask me for things and I dont know how to advice them. Their spouses are horrible. And they broke up on a miss understanding now they know the truth.

[celinesweets]

Don't go back to the ex, think about what's the reason why they broke up in the first place.

[ladydi770]

What to do when you reunite with your lost love? I have a friend who is married and got reunited with his ex who he never stop loving. The chemistry is still there but both are married with problems. What should I advice them?

I SUGGESTION IS TO KEEP IT ON ICE AND LET EACH TAKE CARE OF THEIR CURREN RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS BEFORE MAKING A DECISION TO ACT ON SOMETHING THAT MAY ONLY BE CHEMISTRY, RATHER THAN TRUE LOVING FEELING FOR EACH OTHER!

[MYKRLuciano]

They were high school sweet heart and they broke up because of a lie that another friend said to break them up. Actually it was my cousin who lie to get her to be with him. And it was to late when I try to tell them what was going on. Its not just chemistry is true love. I seen it in their eyes. I wish I can do more but. I will just leave them to be.

[premafussel]

i agree, they need to follow their head this time, learn from the mistake of the past..... and whenever you have to make a decision you will hurt one of them....

[Elizabethar]

I always heard if you love someone sit them free if they come back than it's true love. Maybe this is what happen to them?

[jusu]

This post sort of hit home with me right now. My EX just reunited with an old Girlfriend (from 1970)...they were brought together through a mutual friend that found Him on FB. His 'EX' is married but her Husband has Cancer. They haven't even met in person yet, just emails and phone calls. He says they never stopped loving each other...REALLY??? We were married for 24 years! I never knew he still loved someone else! Anyway, I told him to go for it...but he still wants 'US' to get back together. It was never going to happen before and it sure won't ever happen now. I believe that things happen for a reason. Maybe it was always a love that was meant to be. I'd tell them to give it time...maybe it's just the excitement of new love...again.

[Cuppycake]

This post sort of hit home with me right now. My EX just reunited with an old Girlfriend (from 1970)...they were brought together through a mutual friend that found Him on FB. His 'EX' is married but her Husband has Cancer. They haven't even met in person yet, just emails and phone calls. He says they never stopped loving each other...REALLY??? We were married for 24 years! I never knew he still loved someone else! Anyway, I told him to go for it...but he still wants 'US' to get back together. It was never going to happen before and it sure won't ever happen now. I believe that things happen for a reason. Maybe it was always a love that was meant to be. I'd tell them to give it time...maybe it's just the excitement of new love...again.

I agree completely with your reply!