WTH happened in here?

[SurveyMack10]

I don't consider dyke a derogatory name for a lesbian, I consider it the term for a masculine woman in a relationship with another woman, so sorry if I offended anyone.

Where are you from? The Boonies? Around here we call that a Butch.

butch (b ch) adj. Slang. Exhibiting stereotypically or exaggeratedly masculine traits or appearance. Used especially of lesbians and gay men. n. 1. Slang One who is butch.

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

[Annella]

Mackenzie said:

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable.

Hey, for one thing, why is Walksalone posting on a week dead thread, if not to stir up trouble?  Nobody had posted in this thread for a week until he posted out of the blue....only to get something going.  Since he started it, he's trying to keep it going I guess.

He did make a homosexual remark implicating Mackenzie and I....no matter how he wants to justify it or explain it away letter by letter, or word my word.  I believe at the time, he regarded Mackenzie as a man as she called herself SurveyMack.  Since when is it a crime to choose any ID you want?  After he assumed she was a male, he made his homosexual remark.  Now he's trying to backtrack because the joke was on him?  Too bad!  He had just before made a rude post about presenting me with a "Laughing Jackass Trophy" because of a grammatical error in an earlier post.  When he made an assumption of Mackenzie being a male, and then she revealed she was named "Mackenzie", he got ticked.  Well.......to bad.  Go back and read the whole thread before jumping on Mackenzie for anything.  I then proceeded to give the trophy back to him.

She's right.  EVERYTHING we say is scrutinized and torn apart, but you have no problem putting derogatory titles or names on Christians.

It was MY post about her intelligence and college.....not her's.  She seems very intelligent to me, and not afraid to stand up for what she believes.  So if you have a problem about the posting of her intelligence.....it's my post and evaluation of her.

What is the deal about whether she has gay friends or not jordandog?  I mean really?  What was that long post about her relationship with her friends and if they were gay, and probably were not TRUE friends etc. That's absurd!  

[Annella]

Another thing.....I applaud anyone going to any higher education outside of high school Marieelissa wether it be college, Tech. school, etc.  In this day and age, furthering your education and/or marketable skills takes some brave incentive considering the cost, and everything else it takes to "make the grade".  Including.....if you can even find a job (afterward) with those marketable skills in this economy?

Mackenzie is probably on FC to make a little extra moolah like all the rest of us, and deserves it.  I believe she's working part time also as to further her education.  I can't remember everything she told me, but it seemed like a big load to carry for a young woman.  I respect her for that, and all you can do is tear her down?

Give yourself a hand.............

[Annella]

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

Don't speak for everyone, when you speak to me, speak of my actions and words and not anyone elses. COOL!!

What's wrong with you today Marieelissa?  You took her words and twisted it around and then used it against her.....NOT COOL!!  Since you, jordandog, Walksalone, and Falconer were all posting her at once....she addressed you as a group.  I would have done the same thing.

[Annella]

Another thing.....I applaud anyone going to any higher education outside of high school Marieelissa wether it be college, Tech. school, etc.  In this day and age, furthering your education, and/or marketable skills, takes some brave incentive considering the cost, and everything else it takes to "make the grade".  Not including if you can even find a job afterward with those marketable skills in this economy?

Mackenzie is probably on FC to make a little extra moolah like all the rest of us, and deserves it.  I believe she's working part time also as to further her education.  I can't remember everything she told me, but it seemed like a big load to carry for a young woman.  I respect her for that, and all you can do is tear her down?

Give yourself a hand.............

Well she is lacking one thing and it is the ability to be nice. Christians are suppost to be like God and the behavior I seen from lots of them show that they are not with God what so ever.

The ability to be nice?  Oh please.....I can't believe you of all people can post these words?  Your on ignore for now.

[jordandog]

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

Will it never end....

Once again, when it has absolutely nothing to do with anything christian, you have to play the same old card from your hand. The poor and debased christians come into play so that being offensive to another group of people can be downplayed.

[Annella]

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

Will it never end....

Once again, when it has absolutely nothing to do with anything christian, you have to play the same old card from your hand. The poor and debased christians come into play so that being offensive to another group of people can be downplayed.

Will it never end?  Probably not!  Thing is......it's the believers (Christians) that seem to get your abrasive postings and offensive put downs.  The Christians are especially treated to your scathing remarks.  Excuse us for making the connection......that is so clearly there.  Your insinuating that Mackenzie was offensive to any "group" of people when YOU made the comment about slang words pertaining to certain types of races and peoples......when she did not, is projecting a falsehood.

Quite trying to accuse her of things said or (by your judgement) implied, when all you are doing is trying to stir up a hornet's nest.  A lot of what was in your post about calling a black person n****r, or some black person eating chicken or some such nonsense......CAME FROM YOU!!!!!  What in the world were you trying to reference with those kinds of stereotypes?  Another thing, I don't recall Mackenzie even referring to such.  Are you for real?  Talk about putting words in someone's mouth.

Stop trying to make reference to something that wasn't said, or make it damaging, when there was no reference to it at all. Who are you to judge who and what kind of friends she has?  You accused her of such audacity, when in truth your whole post is such.

[jordandog]

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

Will it never end....

Once again, when it has absolutely nothing to do with anything christian, you have to play the same old card from your hand. The poor and debased christians come into play so that being offensive to another group of people can be downplayed.

Will it never end?  Probably not!  Thing is......it's the believers (Christians) that seem to get your abrasive postings and offensive put downs.  The Christians are especially treated to your scathing remarks.  Excuse us for making the connection......that is so clearly there.  Your insinuating that Mackenzie was offensive to any "group" of people when YOU made the comment about slang words pertaining to certain types of races and peoples......when she did not, is projecting a falsehood.

Quite trying to accuse her of things said or (by your judgement) implied, when all you are doing is trying to stir up a hornet's nest.  A lot of what was in your post about calling a black person n****r, or some black person eating chicken or some such nonsense......CAME FROM YOU!!!!!  What in the world were you trying to reference with those kinds of stereotypes?  Another thing, I don't recall Mackenzie even referring to such.  Are you for real?  Talk about putting words in someone's mouth.

Stop trying to make reference to something that wasn't said, or make it damaging, when there was no reference to it at all. Who are you to judge who and what kind of friends she has?  You accused her of such audacity, when in truth your whole post is such.

Annella, I have come to the conclusion that you are just not able to look out beyond your tunnel vision of christianity long enough (if at all) to see there is a whole world out there that exists beyond it. I did not put words in anyone's mouth and my remarks were mine. I never said they were mack's, or anyone else's. Why do you feel the need to stick your nose into every reply when they have nothing to do with you and are not addressed to you?

Do NOT confuse my posts with Cuppycake's, or any of the other non-regular D&D posters, who jump in randomly and DO call you christians names and tell you all to go play with invisible friends. You will NOT be able to because they are not there to find, period.

I call it like I see it and that 'dyke' comment and what followed had nothing to do with christians, but as I said, the 'christian card' was played again. That is not a sign of intelligence when all anyone can do is continue to come back to the same old thing, time after time. It is like a small child ending each and every argument with one of their playmates with, "Well, my dad can still beat up your dad, so there!"

I honestly don't think you have enough going for you in the thought department to come up with anything outside of a christian perspective - regardless of what we happen to be discussing at the time. I was off here for 10 days, other than a casual glance, because I was teaching classes to R.N.'s. I posted in this thread (you were upset because Walks had rekindled it, remember?) because the remark made by mack angered and upset me. If you did not like Walks rekindling the thread, which he had EVERY right to, why bother posting your (unnecessary) input? Find something else to complain about. Perhaps something more worthy. Have a wonderful day.

[SurveyMack10]

I don't consider dyke a derogatory name for a lesbian, I consider it the term for a masculine woman in a relationship with another woman, so sorry if I offended anyone.
Furthermore, you never explained how I  have a masculine screen name, so feel free to think before you speak.
Well I apologized, but I guess as usual you all have to dwell on it anyway.
You have no right to tell me if I have gay/lesbian friends or not.
I NEVER said all gay relationships have one masculine and one feminine, so thanks for putting words in my mouth. I actually said where I'm from dyke is a word used to refer to the masculine member of a lesbian relationship, never said theres always one. If it is derrogatory by yalls terms I apologize, but I didn't mean it in that way. No amount of you griping at me will change any of that.

disparaging: expressing criticism or a low opinion


I don't know how you look at it but calling anyone names is mean and unchristian like.

You're right. IF I had meant it in a degrading way it would have been rude of me to use that name, since I didn't  you're wrong. I'm not going to apologize 50 times on a thread full of people I don't know for saying a word that they think shouldn't be said even if I didn't mean it in a harmful way.

[SurveyMack10]

Another thing.....I applaud anyone going to any higher education outside of high school Marieelissa wether it be college, Tech. school, etc.  In this day and age, furthering your education, and/or marketable skills, takes some brave incentive considering the cost, and everything else it takes to "make the grade".  Not including if you can even find a job afterward with those marketable skills in this economy?

Mackenzie is probably on FC to make a little extra moolah like all the rest of us, and deserves it.  I believe she's working part time also as to further her education.  I can't remember everything she told me, but it seemed like a big load to carry for a young woman.  I respect her for that, and all you can do is tear her down?

Give yourself a hand.............

Well she is lacking one thing and it is the ability to be nice. Christians are suppost to be like God and the behavior I seen from lots of them show that they are not with God what so ever.

If only your judgement mattered.

[SurveyMack10]

It was MY post about her intelligence and college.....not her's.  She seems very intelligent to me, and not afraid to stand up for what she believes.  So if you have a problem about the posting of her intelligence.....it's my post and evaluation of her.

And I am pointing out she is no Doogie Howser...cool.

I NEVER claimed to be, so once again you're way off the mark with your posts. I go to college, that's ALL I said. WOW.

[SurveyMack10]

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

Don't speak for everyone, when you speak to me, speak of my actions and words and not anyone elses. COOL!!

What's wrong with you today Marieelissa?  You took her words and twisted it around and then used it against her.....NOT COOL!!  Since you, jordandog, Walksalone, and Falconer were all posting her at once....she addressed you as a group.  I would have done the same thing.

Well considering I am a Christian why would I degrade myself?

Right now while its convenient, just a few days ago you posted a thread saying if God was real he would have came down here by now. That's all fine and dandy, it's your choice, but claiming Christianity when its convenient is getting a bit old.

and I can only imagine what responses I will get for posting this truth

[SurveyMack10]

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

Will it never end....

Once again, when it has absolutely nothing to do with anything christian, you have to play the same old card from your hand. The poor and debased christians come into play so that being offensive to another group of people can be downplayed.

Well when the hypocrisy ends I'll quit bringing it up.

[SurveyMack10]

oh sorry, didn't know you all get to decide whats offensive and what isnt- yet any degrading name for a christian is acceptable

Will it never end....

Once again, when it has absolutely nothing to do with anything christian, you have to play the same old card from your hand. The poor and debased christians come into play so that being offensive to another group of people can be downplayed.

Will it never end?  Probably not!  Thing is......it's the believers (Christians) that seem to get your abrasive postings and offensive put downs.  The Christians are especially treated to your scathing remarks.  Excuse us for making the connection......that is so clearly there.  Your insinuating that Mackenzie was offensive to any "group" of people when YOU made the comment about slang words pertaining to certain types of races and peoples......when she did not, is projecting a falsehood.

Quite trying to accuse her of things said or (by your judgement) implied, when all you are doing is trying to stir up a hornet's nest.  A lot of what was in your post about calling a black person n****r, or some black person eating chicken or some such nonsense......CAME FROM YOU!!!!!  What in the world were you trying to reference with those kinds of stereotypes?  Another thing, I don't recall Mackenzie even referring to such.  Are you for real?  Talk about putting words in someone's mouth.

Stop trying to make reference to something that wasn't said, or make it damaging, when there was no reference to it at all. Who are you to judge who and what kind of friends she has?  You accused her of such audacity, when in truth your whole post is such.

[SurveyMack10]

Another thing.....I applaud anyone going to any higher education outside of high school Marieelissa wether it be college, Tech. school, etc.  In this day and age, furthering your education, and/or marketable skills, takes some brave incentive considering the cost, and everything else it takes to "make the grade".  Not including if you can even find a job afterward with those marketable skills in this economy?

Mackenzie is probably on FC to make a little extra moolah like all the rest of us, and deserves it.  I believe she's working part time also as to further her education.  I can't remember everything she told me, but it seemed like a big load to carry for a young woman.  I respect her for that, and all you can do is tear her down?

Give yourself a hand.............

Well she is lacking one thing and it is the ability to be nice. Christians are suppost to be like God and the behavior I seen from lots of them show that they are not with God what so ever.

The ability to be nice?  Oh please.....I can't believe you of all people can post these words?  Your on ignore for now.

Do you really think me being on ignore hurts my feelings? I could care less and why do you guys feel the need to announce it 

Then quit talking about it 4 posts later.