Quote from jcribb:
you then turn around and call our beliefs "nonsense security blankets." That is uncalled for.
Quote from queenofnines:
So religion doesn't deserve to be criticized? You have to understand that I'm not attacking YOU; I'm sure you're a perfectly nice believer whose personal Christianity does not negatively affect others. However, dogmatic religions on the whole cause unthinkable problems, and the less people who are involved in them, the less power is given to the atrocities that are committed in religion's name. I'm doing my part to plant the seeds of critical thinking, for humanity's sake. Sometimes that involves being very direct with people. Instead of getting offended that I said an ill word about your deeply-held beliefs, think about WHY I am saying the ill words, and be honest with yourself that things like, "She's mad at god" are not valid answers.
I agree you have the right to criticize religion, just as I have the right to criticize atheism. But the "seeds of critical thinking" need to be questions or statements that challenge the belief, or events of Christian/non-christian history, not remarks, such as "nonsense security blankets," or "delusional...", etc. All you are doing is mocking and stirring up people's anger.
Here are a couple of questions, or statements that are examples (that have been asked of me or put to me) that would qualify "seeds of critical thinking":
1. The Bible is full of contradictions. (List the problems you see and I will try to answer and show why it is not a contradiction. I use 1 Peter 3:15-16 to help remind me of my defense mode.): "But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear, Having a good conscience, that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation (manner of life) in Christ."
2. Why do you think the Bible is the Word of God? Prove it. (Part of my answer involves the fulfilled prophecies that have already come to pass, are happening, and will happen.)
3. I was a Christian and changed my mind. (Well, first off, were you saved because you went to church, or were you saved as you accepted Jesus in your heart as your personal Savior? If the first, then you were probably not saved in the first place, because works don't save you. Jesus does, when you acknowledge Him as Savior. If you were really saved, then you are still saved, and in a manner of God's time and works, He will eventually deal with you in such a way as to bring you back into fellowship with Him.) Usually this leads to further debate regarding this.
I could add more, but by asking questions instead of name-calling our beliefs, you will find people are much more willing to debate because their input to them (or me) is as valuable to me as yours is to you. It makes a big difference in how we are both affected.