you have a feeling that you shouldn't go to a certain place, you have a bad feeling, but you choose to go anyway
I have this happen to me on a fairly regular basis, always have, but I do NOT attribute it to 'god warning me'. It is instinct, a highly acute sense of myself and my surroundings that I have developed over the years and, in some cases, a memory of a prior experience with something or someone I cannot quite put my finger on. It is how and why our brains work the way they do ie to help us survive. It is no different really than an animal that has had a close encounter with a predator and at some point later on is in that same situation/surroundings, senses that something is not right, but continues in their action. Sometimes they escape in one piece, sometimes they are injured, and at times they become dinner. That is a very simplified breakdown, but I think it gets my point across.
I think you said it well, Jordandog.
A good example...the moment I laid eyes on the man that raped me, I wanted to run in the other direction as fast as possible, but I didn't. If that was g-d telling me to leave, then why didn't g-d remove me from the situation instead of trying to do some psychic mumbo jumbo on me?
One of the core concepts of Christianity is that God leaves us with the decision...starts back with Adam and Eve having the choice to take Satan's bait or not to...
So...what you're saying here is that g-d warned me to run away and since I didn't it was my fault I was raped? Thats
And don't get me started on the interpretation of Adam and Eve, because I definitely don't agree with you there...
HOW DARE YOU put those words in my mouth. Don't you dare EVER make me out to sound like a careless human being. I meant God didn't just REMOVE you from the situtation because he doesn't just POOF make us disappear from bad situations. But whatever, if you want to be petty and put words in my mouth that's fine I dont want to be a part of it.
I'm not the one who is trying to make anyone out to be anything here. It is a reasonable conclusion to make based on your words. Your words did offend me, though. That is a very careless thing to say to a rape survivor...and you turning it around on me like that is even more offensive. I am a believer...I wholeheartedly believe and love g-d, but I would never say that g-d failed to protect me from being raped...just like I would never say my mother is the cause of my rape because she gave birth to me. I don't see me as being the petty one here, but each person has a different view.
I just read the words as they are written, and I cannot see your intention behind them. The words as they were written were highly offensive and
. Of course g-d doesn't just remove us from bad situations because g-d is not active in our world...that instinct of mine was not g-d warning me but a survival instinct that I ignored. G-d loves me and would not willingly allow me to be harmed if g-d was actively participating in that time and place...just like my parents would never have sat idly by and allowed it to happen.
Your attitude, though, remains offensive to me. It seems to me that you think that I am out to make you look like a bad person, and I'm not. I think you are a smart and intelligent young woman who, while you may lack in some life experiences due to your young age, adds something to this forum
when you are not jumping down the throats of those with whom you disagree. But, whatever, I do not want any part of your defensive attitude.
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