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cball55

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My spouse & I are white/african american.  We encounter some individuals of the african american persuasion, that are really upset about us being together.  They have gone so far as to state that the "GOOD" black guys always go find them a white woman.  It's like they are jealous or something.

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #1 on: September 02, 2010, 07:17:05 pm »
Why do you care what they think? Are you both happy with eachother? That's all that counts.

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #2 on: September 02, 2010, 08:56:13 pm »
Probably because it goes against ALL the laws of nature. Proof is in nature itself-----Have you ever seen a blue bird mating with a cardinal ( red bird)?? NO ( They are both birds)......Have you ever seen a tiger mating with a lion?? NO (They are both BIG cats)......Have you ever seen a wolf mating with a Collie??NO (They are both dogs)

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #3 on: September 02, 2010, 09:22:04 pm »
It does not matter what others think what makes you happy is whats important. In the end we all turn into dust. So in essence we are all the same.
« Last Edit: September 02, 2010, 10:00:41 pm by Lusie »

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #4 on: September 02, 2010, 09:55:02 pm »
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Probably because it goes against ALL the laws of nature. Proof is in nature itself-----Have you ever seen a blue bird mating with a cardinal ( red bird)?? NO ( They are both birds)......Have you ever seen a tiger mating with a lion?? NO (They are both BIG cats)......Have you ever seen a wolf mating with a Collie??NO (They are both dogs)

...what the hell? I really hope this is sarcasm.

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #5 on: September 02, 2010, 10:33:06 pm »
Probably because it goes against ALL the laws of nature. Proof is in nature itself-----Have you ever seen a blue bird mating with a cardinal ( red bird)?? NO ( They are both birds)......Have you ever seen a tiger mating with a lion?? NO (They are both BIG cats)......Have you ever seen a wolf mating with a Collie??NO (They are both dogs)
:bs: i too hope that this is sarcasm. and your wrong. google a LIGER. and alot of dogs are half wolf, where do you think dogs came from to begin with?
~Chase....

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #6 on: September 02, 2010, 10:37:58 pm »
Why do you care what they think? Are you both happy with eachother? That's all that counts.
i agree. I am half "black" and half "white". my girlfriend is "black". truly race dosen't exist. species, yes. race, no.
~Chase....

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #7 on: September 03, 2010, 02:50:33 am »
Probably because it goes against ALL the laws of nature. Proof is in nature itself-----Have you ever seen a blue bird mating with a cardinal ( red bird)?? NO ( They are both birds)......Have you ever seen a tiger mating with a lion?? NO (They are both BIG cats)......Have you ever seen a wolf mating with a Collie??NO (They are both dogs)
Wow, you can't predict how all of nature chooses to procreate, there will be deviances along the way, nor can you state that different species mating with eachother is against the laws of nature. You have no Idea what goes on in the wild, especially at the microscopic level. Nature will suprise you one day, I hope you are open-minded..........
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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #8 on: September 03, 2010, 08:20:15 am »
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Probably because it goes against ALL the laws of nature. Proof is in nature itself-----Have you ever seen a blue bird mating with a cardinal ( red bird)?? NO ( They are both birds)......Have you ever seen a tiger mating with a lion?? NO (They are both BIG cats)......Have you ever seen a wolf mating with a Collie??NO (They are both dogs)

...what the hell? I really hope this is sarcasm.


Thats just how people think. It doesn't mean they are right. People are cruel. As long as you 2 are happy and content, then screw what anyone else thinks. 
That which can be asserted without evidence, can be dismissed without evidence.

You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into in the first place.

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #9 on: September 03, 2010, 09:11:31 am »
Why do you care what they think? Are you both happy with eachother? That's all that counts.
Really, I don't care what they think.  We are both very happy with each other.  We always look out for each other, especially when one of us is down or hurting.  And we know we are blessed to  have each other.

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #10 on: September 03, 2010, 01:56:00 pm »
Biblically, there's nothing wrong with marrying other races.  Moses married an Ethiopian woman (Black).  

What IS said is that to marry an unbeliever is to be unequally yoked.  There will be problems in the home.  He warned the Hebrew children not to marry the pagan, as they were idol worshippers, and could become a stumbling block unto them.  There were instances though that they did intermarry, when that wasn't an issue.

Marrying outside another race is not forbidden, but you'll have cultural differences, and you should be aware that your children will have to carry on the fusion of both.  Interracial offspring are commonly beautiful in appearance, and highly intelligent.

Many missionaries go into other countries and marry a converted native.  It's very common and acceptable.  I know many interracial families that are happy, and have stable marriages.
« Last Edit: September 03, 2010, 08:34:23 pm by Annella »

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #11 on: September 04, 2010, 06:06:44 am »
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Marrying outside another race is not forbidden, but you'll have cultural differences, and you should be aware that your children will have to carry on the fusion of both.
Hmm, as will an American marrying someone raised in France. That is just one example, but it can pretty much apply across the board as far as culture, language, customs, holidays, and children will have to carry on that fusion as well don't you think? I have quite a few 'couples' friends who are of different countries and I know this applies to them and their children. 
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Interracial offspring are commonly beautiful in appearance, and highly intelligent.
That comes across as very condescending. It sounds like a PSA from the 1960's - "Do Not Fear The White and Negro Relationship".... ???
You are entitled to your own opinion, but you are not entitled to your own facts.

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #12 on: September 04, 2010, 08:37:50 am »
Well, the statement about so-called "GOOD" black men dating white women is completely wrong, just look at Tiger Woods and O.J Simpson, LOL. There are plenty of "GOOD" black men with black women. The debate is, they're hard to find given the number of eligible black men versus black women ratio...Personally I don't have an issue with interracial relationships, I have a problem with people making up insensitive bogus excuses to why they choose to date or marry outside their race...Rather you are with someone of the opposite race out of love, preference or in many cases convenience, be happy, do you and don't worry what anyone else has to say about it hun.  :peace:

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #13 on: September 04, 2010, 09:04:32 am »
Probably because it goes against ALL the laws of nature. Proof is in nature itself-----Have you ever seen a blue bird mating with a cardinal ( red bird)?? NO ( They are both birds)......Have you ever seen a tiger mating with a lion?? NO (They are both BIG cats)......Have you ever seen a wolf mating with a Collie??NO (They are both dogs)

*Sigh* I weep for humanity. Tigers and lions have mated, as have dogs and wolves....  People like you make me want to run through the streets screaming and setting things on fire. 

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Re: Why are some parts of our society hung up on interracial dating & marriage?
« Reply #14 on: September 04, 2010, 09:12:36 am »
Probably because it goes against ALL the laws of nature. Proof is in nature itself-----Have you ever seen a blue bird mating with a cardinal ( red bird)?? NO ( They are both birds)......Have you ever seen a tiger mating with a lion?? NO (They are both BIG cats)......Have you ever seen a wolf mating with a Collie??NO (They are both dogs)

*Sigh* I weep for humanity. Tigers and lions have mated, as have dogs and wolves....  People like you make me want to run through the streets screaming and setting things on fire. 
Yeah, tend to agree, but I don't think I would start any fires - not worth the prison time over pure ignorance from anyone. I still don't know if the poster quoted was actually serious or just making a (very) bad joke, but I hope it's the latter of the two..... :(
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