He said he's working late tonight...

[sflynt]

 :'(So he calls and says he's working late tonight. but he never ever works late... should I be worried? He just seemed a little off when I talked to him.. Maybe its nothing, but I can't help this feeling... We've been together 7 going on 8 years so I know when somethings wrong with him or if he's up to something....... Should I worry???

[healer_]

I dont know if you two are married or not, but maybes he's fooling you.
He might actually be planning a little surprise. 
I know my man has done the same before.
Good luck!

[muush88]

Well there is always a first time to work late. um what type of work does he do?  i wouldnt jump to conclusions so fast   i just started working overtime and its been awhile since ive had overtime   maybe its a good sign things are getting better

[Valerie1979]

sounds like you are already worried..... any reason to not trust him?
Give him a chance.... 8 years..... not something to take lightly.

[ULuvCeCe]

If you've been together that long and you still have trust issues then you two need to sort that out.  If you normally do not have trust problems, he really could be planning something special or maybe he's picking up extra hours to help the family?

[mc1962]

You got to trust each other because if you don't then its like a wedge that will tear you two apart,  give the benefit of the doubt FIRST.

[GoGoKokiGo]

Try driving down to his place of work. Sounds a bit ridiculous to do but hey, better then worrying all night long.

[si3flychicsi3]

sorry you feel this way - but its hard for US to sit by when we are used a normal routine - i understand completely - when you are used to things one way then something comes up - we automatically assume the worst. why do we do this? no one will ever know.  i have no reason to feel this way towards my significant other but it comes out when i am not home and i dont know whats going on there. hope you get thru this     

[RockiesInOctober]

Who knows? Anything is possible! Keep us updated on your relationship!

[elysee24]

With my personal experience, I don't trust guys and I know when they are lying.
Happy to hear your update about what was going on and he was just working late instead of doing something else.

[sheenu]

just play ur part and stay honest

[tantricia44]

Thank you guys. I know I shouldnt be worrying, he just sounded weird when I talked to him. But he seemed normal when he came home, and dirty, from working! lol.. I shouldn't have jumped to conclusions, I normally dont have trust issues with him. He's a great guy and I'm really lucky to have him. and thank God he's getting overtime! Especially right now. Thanks everyone!!

Maybe you should tell him about your worries & let it out. Being honest about it would do you & him a world of good. Then he can be aware of your feelings about him suddenly working late out of the blue. When couples talk out their worries there is no misunderstanding & trust is even more enhanced. You should have out right confront him about it instead of silently suffering wondering what he was up to. Next time something like this comes up again, be honest & out right ask him. 

[cubarican210]

I mean I can only tell you from my experience and it may look he's up to something but maybe he just needs a breather. Guys tend to be like that sometimes. Or he may also be up to something good and wants to surprise you with something and he just doesn't want to tell you. Obviously, it would ruin the surprise. Don't worry for now just keep your eyes and ears open to what he says to you or what he does in the next few days. If he starts acting distant towards you then something may seriously be bothering him. Don't hound him with questions though. Trust me I learned that with my husband. You can only get him angry without actually getting your questions answered.

[g0ku4life]

Ah, the bane of working overtime.