Here's my point- It has NOT been proven that they are born that way. You can't prove it so you can't convince me (as you are trying to ). In your words, if you're the one trying to do the convincing YOU have the burden of proof. I am NOT trying to convince you, just telling you why I think it's wrong. In my opinion, it i a choice and it's wrong- I have a right to my opinion, you just cann't agree to disagree with anything I say because you disagree with my religion.
So...basically...you just totally avoided answering my question of WHY it's a choice. I stumped you, perhaps? Can't think of an explanation other than it's in a book that says it's bad? Well that STILL doesn't describe how it's a "choice".
We've already given you *our* "burden of proof" by explaining how we all know you can't help who you're attracted to and if you, as a straight person, can't choose to wake up one day and suddenly start liking the same sex, what makes you think ANYONE can?
And I think the non-religious side DOES convince you, you just don't want to admit it...it convinces you if you feel for your fellow human being and grasp that there is no rational argument against it. How do I know this? Because I was once a Christian having my morals spoon-fed to me as well.
Again, you have all the right to not approve of gays. But your beliefs do NOT have the right to restrict basic freedoms from people who are simply different than you.
No, you do NOT get to decide how or why I feel like I do- I do NOT have my morals spoon fed to me- and contrary to what you think I DO have a brain.
It IS a choice. I CHOSE to date the guy I am dating now. My parents chose to get married.
I have great connections with girls, my best friends. We are very close, like sisters. Am I going to jump in her pants? Absolutely not.
Why? I choose not to.
You don't believe in free will though right? Or something like that, so I understand why you don't think it's a choice.
I'm a firm believer in free will and all of us being held accountable for our choices.
You are just as closeminded as an atheist as you accuse us "closeminded Christians" of being- you just wont open you eyes and see it.
I am not going to say it again- it's a choice.
My proof? You choose to be with who you want to be with, I choose to be with who I want to be with, we all do every day.
Your "proof" is bogus and just backs up the fact that neither of our opinions have been officially proven- so your claim is opinion just as mine is.
BUT- as you have argued on many other threads, YOU have the burden of proof on this one.
So the next time I ask you to prove God doesn't exist and you tell me that I have the burden of proof- remember that you hypocritically aren't following that rule right here on this thread.