Have you ever been hit on by someone who is dating your friend?Akward?

[ladycasshmere]

I found myself in a very bizarre situation.I was at a friends house at a get together.She ran out to get some extra refreshments.Im in the kitchen fixing myself a drink when in comes her guy and he starts making small talk.Just about the party in general and how he didnt want one of her friends she'd invitied to come.Im joking like you probably say that about all her friends.He says "not you I like you".Then he gets real close and touch my leg a little and says"I really like you".He tried to kiss me I backed up just as someone else was walking in.I wanted to snap on him but decided not to cause a scene.  How do you tell someone their man is no good or should I even open up my mouth and tell her?

[football6]

Very awkward. If the girl is really your friend, you would look out for her and tell her the truth.

[muush88]

next time you see him give him a big smile and kick him in the family jewels  and when hes down   snap on him

[mc1962]

next time you see him give him a big smile and kick him in the family jewels  and when hes down   snap on him

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Ouch!!

[abbyc27]

Ooo thats tough... I don't know, if you do tell her think about how you say it because otherwise she could get angry at you.  I remember one time my friend told me that my bf at the time was hitting on her and she was just laughing about it saying "isn't that funny?" She was acting like it was no big deal, I was really upset and quite pissed at her after that for a while...

[yvalentin]

there's no easy way to tell something like that. it's best to straight up tell her what happened. i was in the same situation before. when i told my friend what happened, she blamed me for it and accused me of flirting with him first. she wouldn't believe that he could ever do such a thing. at least try to get it out there, it's better than keeping it to yourself and having her find out later.

[mrisha]

Ooo thats tough... I don't know, if you do tell her think about how you say it because otherwise she could get angry at you.  I remember one time my friend told me that my bf at the time was hitting on her and she was just laughing about it saying "isn't that funny?" She was acting like it was no big deal, I was really upset and quite pissed at her after that for a while...

Why were you pissed at the girlfriend?  She wasn't the guilty party your BF was and she was trying to show you that it was no big deal and trying not to hurt your feelings.  What she should have said was that your BF was a whoremonger.  Would you have felt better then?  Also were you mad at your BF or did you not say anything to him because after all you have a man!!!!    

[abbyc27]

Ooo thats tough... I don't know, if you do tell her think about how you say it because otherwise she could get angry at you.  I remember one time my friend told me that my bf at the time was hitting on her and she was just laughing about it saying "isn't that funny?" She was acting like it was no big deal, I was really upset and quite pissed at her after that for a while...

Why were you pissed at the girlfriend?  She wasn't the guilty party your BF was and she was trying to show you that it was no big deal and trying not to hurt your feelings.  What she should have said was that your BF was a whoremonger.  Would you have felt better then?  Also were you mad at your BF or did you not say anything to him because after all you have a man!!!!    

Yep i was definetely pissed at him.. yeah i guess the reason I was mad at her was because we were just talking and she's like "oh yeah so your boyfriend told me that he likes me haha."

I think a better way to go about the situation would be to say "hey I really need to talk to you about something," tell the person what happened, and then be there for her.