Ever been cheated on?

[ODOMS6598]

My ex husband cheated on me for the last 2 yrs of our marriage.  It was with a girl he worked with.  It was hard to trust my now husband, but I totally do.  He is not the 1st one.   I totally trust my hubby now.  I know he would never cheat.  He's just that kind of person.   

[jkpetite]

Yep and I've been the cheater...I had an 8 month affair and my husband found out and confronted me in April of last year....can you come back from that? it's hard to say....we're still together and fighting like hell to save our marriage and family but BOTH parties have to be willing to do the work and let me tell you - it's HARD WORK...most people will tell you they'd never stay with someone who cheated on them but only YOU know what you can handle and what you are willing to accept....may I suggest a website? www.survivinginfidelity.com - this site has been a God send for me and my H...I do believe this forum is a BIG reason why we're still together....

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

- NOT TRUE....generalizations are NEVER accurate.....there are some pretty crappy people out there but there are also PLENTY of awesome people out there too....

[teflonfanatic]

I have not been cheated on, i'm extremely close-minded(as Falconor likes to throw in my face cause I don't acknowledge the matrix 0_0) on top of that i'm shy and picky. It's safe to say I won't be able to date until i'm 30, or when i'm not so shy.

[missplaymate618]

Unfortunately I have been on both sides, I've been cheated on and the cheater. But my last few guys I dated cheated on me. The guy I'm with now, it was hard for me at first to trust him, but I do! It just took me a long time to do so.

[trujillo33]

I never been cheated on and hope i never get cheat on... i am in my first serious relationship. However, my sister was cheated on or she was the other women but she didnt know the guy was married. They were together for about a year and a half and she was pg with  his baby when she found out he was married. It was easy for him to cheat because he travel for work. However, he told her he was going to get a divorce and that he wasnt living with his wife. I guess she loved him so much because she stay with him until she past away. However, he hasnt gotten a divorce and was seeing another women when he was with my sister. The nerve of him to come to her service. If i knew he was with another women at the time..i dont know what i would have done to him!!!

[jaymz462]

My darling ex-wife was cheating on me.  Not fun, not fun at all.

[StaciLyn1988]

update lol the chick he had sex with sent me a message here is what she said.... i am a 25 yr old woman who refuses to play your childish high school games. kyle and i talk everynight, and what goes on between you and kyle is your business, not mine. What goes on between me and kyle is our business, so please stay out of it. And I am way more than a one night stand, because it has happend more than once. He even called me and asked me if I would be mad if he went to the zoo with you and his kids, I told him to go and have fun. Now hunni use your head, does that sound like something you would do with a one night stand? I didnt think so, however please if you have any questions feel free to call me you have my number dont be afraid to use it. If its the truth you want then call me...
I forgave him but as soon as i read that i got sick, i called him at his mothers and told he could go be with her cuz i was done for good this time. the zoo day she is talking about he asked me to marry him again and me i started to trust him anythng thinking that everything had been out in the open. The night i got this letter he was at my house begging me that he was sorry he didnt know why he lied or why he called her to ask if he could go to the zoo. Oh and he said we were even cuz when we broke up 2 years ago i got with a differnt guy and he still says I cheated on him that is deffently not true he left us to move 700miles away to live with his mother.