BABY MAMA DRAMA

[shorty8480able]

My husband just found out the 2 sons he has with his baby mama aren't his
i've been helping takingg care of them, she drop them off  6 months at a time, don't provide or nothing
now that i know they're not his i don't wanna do it no more i stay home 24/7 and i have 3 of my own.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO? we can barely provide for ours and i don't wanna take care of somebody else's kids.
That's not the worst part when i was pregnant with my daugther who is now 2 she told me"i hope your baby die" i'll never forget these words.
The kids are 2 and 3 yrs.old i feel like the kids life was build on liars and i told my husband that i could not do it no more.
i can't keep doing it cuz deep inside i truly don't want to if we continue like we were taking care of them
how do you explain later on that daddy is not daddy the woman they've been calling mommy is not mommy
grandpa and grandma are not their grandparents,siblings are not siblings and so on.....
To me this is all lies .....

[vnsz]

Okay so that's just mess up. I don't think that u should
continue with the free babysitting. Run and don't look back...

[muush88]

if the babies mama wont take them find her relatives  drop them off there  id be p.o. about that deal

[NickOfSpencer]

Sounds like a show of Jerry Springer.... Just make sure you confront her and make it clear that you dont run a day care.

[dreamyxo]

How old are the boys?  There is already a bond there in the time you thought the kids were your husbands and both of you were taking care of them.  I wouldn't abandon the children completely because that's the only father they know.  I would make it perfectly clear that you and your husband will not be financially responsible for the children however check with the state laws because it is possible that although your husband is not the bio father he may still be responsible for child support.  It sucks but it does happen. 

IMHO I think you should still maintain some sort of a relationship with the children because I'm sure it must be devastating for them to go through this.  Call once in a while, send birthday cards just to let them know they weren't just thrown away.  How would your own children react knowing the people they thought were their siblings really aren't.  They will probably miss them not being in their lives.  The whole situation is unfortunate but it's not the childrens fault so don't take it out on them.

[vickiemcconkey]

My husband just found out the 2 sons he has with his baby mama aren't his
i've been helping takingg care of them, she drop them off  6 months at a time, don't provide or nothing
now that i know they're not his i don't wanna do it no more i stay home 24/7 and i have 3 of my own.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO? we can barely provide for ours and i don't wanna take care of somebody else's kids

I wouldn't do it anymore.  I would tell her that I am stopping it and that she would have to find another babysitter.  Since you got three of your own I would just worry about them.  I am single mom of 3 teenagers myself, so i know how hard it is.

[trujillo33]

I would be mad!! Since you cant provide for them tell her to take care of them but make sure someone is taking care of them right!

[mgarmstrong]

Wow....That's harsh.  I don't know what I would do in your situtation.  I wish you the best of luck.

[jayswayz2010]

There's HELL for people like her! 

[smylyfayce]

That's a pretty tough situation you and your husband are in. I hate it for the kids who have gotten caught up in the mess created by their mother. This is a situation that will take years to bring an end to, especially if you all have created bonds with those kids. It's not the kids faught that their mother is a liar; the kids shouldn't have to suffer for her actions. If you and your husband have created a special bond with the kids, you all should just stay a part of their lives. Be there for them, because it's obvious that their mother has a psychological problem. 

[steven8280]

u should go chop his genitals off so u or other women out there wont have this problem

[Storm61115]

ooooh man ru serious? that chick is crazy. i'm sorry. she would be on my *hit list too. why would u wish something like that on a person. i mean seriously. she must be on drugs. so, yeah kick the kids out. i know its not their fault but u cant do ne thing for them if they are not ur man's. i know they are kids but u r not responsible for them ..their mother is. she needs to be a mother and stop sleeping around, or what ever she is doing. she;s not being a mother to her kids at all right now. i dont get why someone would do that. if she didnt want the kids she shouldnt have had sexual relations with their father or fathers. she doesnt seem like a responsible adult. poor kids, they dont deserve to have a bad mama. children are innocent. only a product of sexual relations..wheather they wanted to be or not. they didnt ask to be born or even to be born to who they were born to. if she didnt want them then she should have given them up.

[sunset2051]

Wow, I probably drop them off with their mother since you have nothing to do with them. Also, you have 3 of your own. I don't think anybody could blame you for not wanting to take care of stranger's baby.

Best of luck to you. 

[ssonkey]

Seriously, I will not take care of them no more, she needs to get her butt out ther eand work n provide for her kids

[mlbevins]

I hate it for the children, but it sounds like it would be best just to cut all ties.