Why can't I fine a single guy thats my type?

[girlishambition]

Im I being too picky?? everytime I see a guy they are taken and Im not trying to be a jumpoff but something I still go after them...

[kevinbob]

just have to be patient girlfriend theres someone out there for everyone trust me you'll find the right guy one day

[NickOfSpencer]

I kinda hear yuh, most guys my age are lookin for a one night stand to brag to their bud's about. Im the opposite coming from a traditional family. Now its hard to get to know girls I dont know, I just tell myself that they're probably already taken and just to talk to them like their going to be my friend. And if things turn up right maybe i'll find a good one some day. Once I learn to deal with the same person everyday and be happy with it, that'll be the one i keep lol

[thanhkle2003]

If you can't find a guy your type chances are you being too picky. Try assessing what you are looking for on paper. Take a look at he list and determine which ones are secondary. These sometimes can be compromise if a primary traits is there. I think once you give someone a chance, your perception will change in many ways. I'm not saying that it's easy to find your match, I'm just saying to look at it from a different angle.
I would say that best matches are with people you are already fond of. It's harder to trust a stranger, you know what I mean?

[debraleesparks]

  DON'T END UP WITH THIS GUY!! TAKE YOUR TIME!!!!!

[mc1962]

Good idea for a new section in the forums...........Love connection (LOL)    Might be a thought. 

[lostutis2009]

Change the setting.  You might be looking for a stereotype that is hard to find.  Don't get confused about the bad guys out there vs. the good guys taken.  There are still a lot of good ones out there, you just have to give them a chance.  They might not look like the guys you look for, but believe me, once you get to know an decent guy with a warm heart, you wont be interested in the fine looking empty headed ones. 

[GoGoKokiGo]

DON'T END UP WITH THIS GUY!! TAKE YOUR TIME!!!!!

That guy may be big, but he's probably awesome. Big sexy beast!

[Valerie1979]

Im I being too picky?? everytime I see a guy they are taken and Im not trying to be a jumpoff but something I still go after them...

I suggest that you date many men (not at the same time and I didn't say sleep with them) but get to know what your type really is, find out what is important to you.  be willing to go out with someone that may not look like your perfect 10 or make a 6-figure income, etc.  I am married to a great man, but really not necessarily the type of guy i was looking for --- but it has worked out well for us. 

[jongarton]

roflmbo good job debra! Guess we all can't be prom kings though

[Jerry1216]

STOP DATING! Your in sin in darkness and it will never bring forth a true light. You will be stuck compromising the perfect relationship founded on God for an idealistic flesh pleasing relationship based on feelings ideals lust and sex. Not on what God has founded relationships on. These ministers of sin think they are wise but they are fools and you will burn out and wreck and lose whatever innocence you have left! You need to keep your body preserved as it is the more you use it the more your giving yourself away to other men who you may never see again!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgcmDyyWSao

[Jerry1216]

Truth being is you need salvation from Christ Jesus the Lord and to be cleansed from your inuquity given a new heart from God. This is why Jesus Christ came as a man and died in the place of sinners! His blood was shed to wash away your sins. You are in sin against God and your heart is defiled with perversion and lust and so no man will do. You crave a man who is made for you and not a relationship which is two becoming one as God ordained laying down their lives for each other. This is the true relationship that God forordained. Yet people (more than 50% of marriages failing these days as its gone up as people have turned from the bible the authoritative word of God! Just see this video and its a biblical explanation of what God has to say about it. Its worth it to take a little time to look into.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgcmDyyWSao

[Jerry1216]

STOP DATING! Your in sin in darkness and it will never bring forth a true light. You will be stuck compromising the perfect relationship founded on God for an idealistic flesh pleasing relationship based on feelings ideals lust and sex. Not on what God has founded relationships on. These ministers of sin think they are wise but they are fools and you will burn out and wreck and lose whatever innocence you have left! You need to keep your body preserved as it is the more you use it the more your giving yourself away to other men who you may never see again!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgcmDyyWSao

I don't understand. How can you fall in love if you don't date? How can you decide if they are the person to marry if you don't get to know them?

Watch the video and you will see. Its simple because when you get to know someone for who they are and not what they give you in bed you are getting to know someone. You should fall in love with somone because they may be the kind of person who will live the kind of life in God that you want. Attraction while it may be something you think is the key of a relationship has NOTHING to do with love. Lust is what these kind of relationships are founded on. See 100 other lost blind leaders of the blind living outside of the knowledge and wisdom of Christ and they will tell you a variance of the same Idea. Lust first person later. They have dehumanized relationships. I don't have time to argue this with everyone on here but if you email littlemailboy@hotmail.com I can talk more but if you watch the video you will know! there is a part 2 3 4 and I think 5 Once you watch the first video (only 10 minutes long) you will already have a greater and truer understanding. This is God speaking his word through people who love his word.

[sgluckadoo]

bc boys suck! 

[sgluckadoo]

just reading through this...all i can say is wow....