I can't get over her...

[efranklin99]

only time will heal.

[Mojoshog]

Tell her how you feel then wish her happiness and let go. If you truly love her you should want her to be happy right?

[shannakillion]

My grandmother always said and I'm sure a few others too.       If you love it set free if it's yours it will come back to you.    I know it's painful but it's true.  Hang i there

[jaidenavery]

build a bridge and get over it.

she's ur first? really? that doesn't mean it's the end of the world just cause she dumped u for a new guy. I really don't like people that do that to me. so i know how u feel. been there done that. just learn to move on without her. being single is better. find new things that interests you. time heals all wounds only if you do something about healing yourself

[lbeery]

Don't obsess. YOu are better than the rest.  Take what was good about it and use it nextime around.  There will be many happy new friends for you. That's a fact.  Plus, if you look back to much you might miss what is ahead of you.

[deekeepinitreal2009]

im sorry to hear that. but time will help you get over her. get out and go do new things

[Stealth3si]

My girlfriend of 17 months just dumped me. i thought everything was fine... It's so hard to let go. I love her so much. She was my first. I'm honestly in shock. Se has a new guy now and I can't stand to see them together. Advice?

Are you seeking advice on how to get back with her or her with you or how to move on?

[cowgirlx]

Not to be harsh, but you've got to move on.  My husbands ex did not, 4 year plus later and she is still a single mom with 3 kids thinking he is going to come back to her.  You really don't want to be that person.  At some point people just start feeling pitty for you.  There are so many people out there, just go look