how far should you take friendship

[hensleyll]

not sure if the air is cleared she asked me to work at the spur of the moment one weekend and i had 4 kids had to say no so she has never asked again but oh well i see her at family functions she my sis in law best friend we seem to be ok

[clickers]

Yes,if it was someone else perhaps the amount the owner get paid wouldn't make a difference. Like any other employer...they make so much more than what they pay their employees.You either agree to the pay or not.The fact that she's a friend has nothing to do with it.

[hensleyll]

we barely see each other anymore don't know if it by choice or not we are both so busy but I'm assuming its over

[freedavis]

It depends on what kind friend you have.  Has to be a good person.

[hensleyll]

so i ran into her we are good decided we will not work together again but we are ok

[king4cash]

If she is a good friend, forgive her, friendship is more important than money at times....

[hensleyll]

i have no hard feelings to her and she says she has none towards me

[Cjfrank1]

Personally I think these days everybody is out for themselves no matter what the situation family friends neighbors quite sad really but it's it's a fight to the Finish.

[hensleyll]

i beleive this sometimes Cjfrank1

[bshee58]

I would tell her that just because we're friends, don't take advantage of our friendship, she hired you as an employee, and should pay you as such, $10 an hour for cleaning someone's house is not enough. If you're there for 3/4 hours you should get paid $13/14 an hour, that should include putting gas in your car to get to the place you need to be. Someone else wouldn't go for that, and neither should you.

[hensleyll]

well we have just decided we will not work together anymore said she didnt have choice her husband set the rates because the company is under his construction company and he pays taxes on it

[breazybu]

As a friend, you shouldn't have to do anything work related if you're not ok with it. I can understand helping out a little but if they have all that money to spend on fertility then it doesn't seem like she needs the help that bad.