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[aggie49]

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my husband has to have back sugery they are going to put screws and bars in his lower back because where the nerves come off the spine is closed up and they say if it it not taken care of he will loose the feeling in the leg and foot so right now i am at my wits end i am putting my surgery off because i have my youngest in a cast and brace and my hubby need this because if he doesn't he wont be able to work so after  every one else is taken care of then i will have my surgery  so i know it all works out i want to thank every one for all the well wishes for all my fc family  you sll are so great  and if i can ever do anthing for any of you all just ask and i will help in any way i can
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[michele2042]

Bless your heart.  I will keep positive healing thoughts and prayers.   

[Nancy5]

Aggie, I don't know what to say.  I wish there was something I could do to help you and your family.  I will keep you all in my prayers.

[lguzman1]

My dad and mom had that surgery. They had to wear a hard vest for many months. I hope it goes well for you. They still have many back problems and still have pain.

[gaylasue]

My husband had this same surgery - a spinal fusion about 12 years ago.  It was his 5th of 6 back surgeries.  He had so much nerve damage prior to the 6th surgery that he no longer has control of his right foot.  He has to wear a leg brace to keep from falling down.  The nerve damage in his lower back was so bad that it caused him to develop tumors in the bottom of his right foot.  He had the tumors removed which required removing parts of the nerves on the bottom of his foot and between three toes.  He then ended up with gangrene in the bottom of his foot.  He had a big chunk of the bottom of his foot removed because of this.

[aggie49]

well his problem is what they call spinal stenois the opening where the nerves come out at the bottom of his spine is 99%closed so the nerves are all pinched witch is causing thee pain and swelling they want to put 2 screws on each side and the bars on each side to try to keep it open so after we get the second opinion then we are going to deside but it will more the likely be the surgery because the doctor says if he does not do it it will prevent him from any lin his leg or foot

[Nancy5]

I'll keep you guys in my prayers.  Please let us know what you decide.

[nannycoe1]

good luck

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« Reply #10 on: Today at 07:14:52 pm »

   
 

my husband has to have back sugery they are going to put screws and bars in his lower back because where the nerves come off the spine is closed up and they say if it it not taken care of he will loose the feeling in the leg and foot so right now i am at my wits end i am putting my surgery off because i have my youngest in a cast and brace and my hubby need this because if he doesn't he wont be able to work so after  every one else is taken care of then i will have my surgery  so i know it all works out i want to thank every one for all the well wishes for all my fc family  you sll are so great  and if i can ever do anthing for any of you all just ask and i will help in any way i can
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Sounds like you have your hands full. Yes, God will take care of his people. It does seem like there is non way out T times. But those times will maKe us stronger. My prayers are with you. BMaston12