why is it hard for guys to communcate

[bamagirl97]

my guy loves talking with other people other than me .others find it great to talk with me but he  is also stubborn and boring as well

[mc1962]

Maybe try to find some topics that he likes to talk about for a change, such as cars, sports, or such things, guys can get just as bored as heck talking about shopping at the local mall.  Try to find a common ground to meet on........a relationship requires work ON BOTH ENDS.

[mlainez]

WELL, THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DISCUSS THINGS HE DOES LIKE, HUNTING, FISHING AND OTHER SPORTS. EVEN HIS JOB BECOMES A TOPIC BUT WHEN THE TOPIC IS ABOUT RELATIONSHIP ISSUES, HE IS IN ANOTHER WORLD. UNLESS HE GETS HIS POINT ACCROSS FIRST INTHE END IT SEEMS THAT THIS IS ALL THAT MATTERS. WHY IS IT LIKE THAT WITH MEN?

[cowgirlx]

Don't take it personally, it is just how men are wired.  Yeah it sux, but honestly, wouldn't it be just as boring if you guys had exactly the same interest?  If he is seriously just blowing off EVERYTHING you say there might be a bigger prob than just differant interest.  My husband and I have nothing in common, but we make it a point to listen to each other no matter how uninteresting it is.

[mlainez]

Don't take it personally, it is just how men are wired.  Yeah it sux, but honestly, wouldn't it be just as boring if you guys had exactly the same interest?  If he is seriously just blowing off EVERYTHING you say there might be a bigger prob than just differant interest.  My husband and I have nothing in common, but we make it a point to listen to each other no matter how uninteresting it is.

INTERESTING, THANKS