Is it ok to lie?

[king4cash]

Listen, whether it is a little, Big or white lie. A LIE is a LIE.

[waterbearer94]

well if she isn't happy with the result that sucks but if she likes it I don't think it matters what the others think

[swkstudent]

I think you did the right thing in that situation!

[swkstudent]

I don't necessarily think its right to lie but some situations like the one you described are hard tell the truth while sparing someone's feelings.

[cashrose]

Let me know what you guys think.  My girlfriend just spent about $10,000.00 for a complete kitchen make over.  I went with another friend to see the completed project.  My friend was so happy and proud of the kitchen.  Granted, it's not the color of countertop I would have picked, it has a pink cast to it.  The other friend told her 'I don't like the color, what the hell where you thinking?'  My friend was crushed, as I would be.  I told her I liked it, even though I didn't.  If she would have asked me before she bought it, I would have told her the truth, but after it's bought and installed, why hurt her.  What do you think?

Well, I think she didn't believed herself. But rather believed what you said. Really pink kitchen? I'm a lady and yeah pink is good but for the kitchen. I would only make or give my little girls a doll house with pink kitchen but not in my kitchen! Hope she'll match things up in around the kitchens...

[ladycasshmere]

I agree with the person who said I would have told her that color suits you.One thing I have learned from my friendships is that we are not going to always have the same type of taste and opinons but mmy friends and I find a way to be honest without hurting each others feelings.

[kimmy29]

Let me know what you guys think.  My girlfriend just spent about $10,000.00 for a complete kitchen make over.  I went with another friend to see the completed project.  My friend was so happy and proud of the kitchen.  Granted, it's not the color of countertop I would have picked, it has a pink cast to it.  The other friend told her 'I don't like the color, what the hell where you thinking?'  My friend was crushed, as I would be.  I told her I liked it, even though I didn't.  If she would have asked me before she bought it, I would have told her the truth, but after it's bought and installed, why hurt her.  What do you think?

[kimmy29]

its not  good   to  lie  to the  one you  love