parents fighting

[jiuchan]

i posted before about my dad being selfish right?

my mom went to my auntie's house to give her some pairs of shoes that she wants to send to her relatives and i guess that's what started the fight

it wasn't even about the sending something to her relatives but something about pawning stuff because his dollar coins went missing (they're in a box somewhere)

anyway, my dad starts off by yelling about the coins and my mom is tired from her live in job and of course she talks back and the whole yelling happens

it was crazy. i never heard my mom yell and talk back like that before. she was even crying and having a hard time talking cause she was crying.

my dad kept bring the past back and my mom, mad goes off with "stop bringing up the past! you have two kids, you have two grandkids, stop living in the past"

it was pretty crazy. i wanted to go there and just yell at my dad cause he doesn't even consider my mom's feelings at all. but i couldn't help but cry.

he doesn't work, and he gets money from disability, but he doesn't help my mom pay for the bills. he yells at my mom because she's behind. of course she's behind, no one's helping her! and she's trying to make him understand and been trying to make him understand for the past few years that her income alone isn't sufficient. and when he has to give money to my mom, he complains like crazy because he doesn't want to give money to her. but he's willing to give money to his relatives like there's no tomorrow.

i wonder if its okay to rant stuff in here.. xD

[riceman]

sorry to hear, I was terrified when my parents had fights in the past when I was a little kid. 

yes, I think you can rant all you want, but not in this section.  I guess your post might be moved to the general discussion soon.

[jsmith96]

sorry to hear, I was terrified when my parents had fights in the past when I was a little kid. 

yes, I think you can rant all you want, but not in this section.  I guess your post might be moved to the general discussion soon.

  I too am sorry to hear about the fighting... What I would try is to talk to both your parents (when things are calm around the house) and let them both know how much it hurts YOU to see them fighting.
Also, You might try talking with a school counselor (if you are still in school) and/or a trusted friend, just to get it off your chest.
As for ranting, I agree with 'riceman' "you can rant all you want, but not in this section", best to do it in Off-Topic.
I'll say a inspirational pray for you & your family that things work out...
~~~All The Best~~~

[tinaryerson]

i never understood why people have to yell at each other.  Have some self control.