should a man take back an ex-wife?

[cathy37]

I know for sure that I would not take back my ex.  He was lazy and never wanted to do things around the house.  He had a temper and would cuss me out at the drop of a hat.

[bhiett]

There are so many variables.  If the spouses were very young when they married and divorced, time and maturity could make all the difference in the world to their ability to succeed in a marriage.  Sometimes second chances are deserved and sometimes not.