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MYKRLuciano

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Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« on: March 28, 2011, 05:42:29 pm »
I dont believe in the motto but it depends. People do change in life some for the best and other stay the same. Just put your self in their shoes and the reason behind there action.   

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #1 on: March 28, 2011, 05:51:58 pm »
Every person has their own free will. If they know their actions are improper, they will stop. They will no longer walk further into the wrong path. Otherwise, the statement does apply until the person wakes up. The extent of the comeuppance will vary.

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #2 on: March 28, 2011, 06:32:20 pm »
I do believe that people can change but it doesnt happen overnight. If I got cheated on it would take time for me to trust and with trust comes change

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #3 on: March 29, 2011, 05:21:26 am »
Nope.  It's possible for people to change, although it happens rarely.
"It is far better to grasp the universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring."
-- Carl Sagan

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #4 on: March 29, 2011, 06:28:40 am »
I dont believe in this motto I have been with my finace for some years now we havent got marry but its in the making. He has hurt me numerous of times n ive let him go many of times but some reason my heart wont let him go. He now is the best man that is in my life and he loves me like crazy so what im saying if u love that person what they did it can be work out if it was love..

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #5 on: March 29, 2011, 07:42:00 am »
Its sad to say but I believe this motto.. :/ I've been with the same person on/off for 2 years, & he has yet to stop cheating. Maybe I'm the one doing wrong for continuing to speak to him..

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #6 on: March 29, 2011, 07:48:54 am »
I believe in this. Especially if its with the same person. If someone cheats on you and you stay with them, why wouldn't they do it again? You've let them know they can get away with it with no consequences on their part, so why wouldn't they?

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #7 on: March 29, 2011, 08:11:22 am »
I do believe people can change

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #8 on: March 29, 2011, 09:07:29 am »
No that is not true!! People will change definitely but patience is necessary. Time will give the solution to them who have cheated

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #9 on: March 29, 2011, 09:40:29 am »
I don't believe it, because a person can change. However that doesn't mean I trust them right away. They have to earn that trust.

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #10 on: March 30, 2011, 01:51:27 pm »
I think that the motto is sort of true. If they had the urge to cheat once, who is to say they will never do it again? Yeah, there is a SMALL chance that they would change, but like the other motto "people never change".

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Re: Do you believe the motto "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
« Reply #11 on: March 31, 2011, 08:58:24 am »
I believe in the motto.  Some people can change, but a cheater quite often keeps on cheating.

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