MEN ONLY

[cubarican210]

Ok guys, I'm a female but I'm interested in hearing your views on why men cheat. Can you please answer that question for me as honestly as you can? It boggles my mind as to why most men have a great wife/girlfriend at home and they have to go out and cheat. What is the reason for this? Tell me 'cause I'm dying to know.

[bigfoot951]

The issue isn't whether or not a man has a great wife or girlfriend at home, the issue is whether or not the man thinks he has a great wife/gf.  Many men are in relationships with a women for reasons other than having a true connection with her.  I don't feel the need to say what those reasons are.  If a man truely cares about his wife/gf he won't cheat.  When a man goes to get married he should care more about his wife them himself.  Unfortunely i think alot of men aren't capable of that, therefore they will never be above cheating.  Bottom line if your man really loves you he won't cheat.  I am a man and this is only my opinion.

[marcar1008]

OOOPS curiosity killed the cat, I just had to peek in. Mennn 

[JessieKateRose]

Not a guy, but sometimes it's because they're insecure.

[articx]

I think you should of just asked the question of why people will cheat. This is not something only men do and it should not be viewed this way. Some men do cheat on their wife/girlfriend/boyfriend, yes, but is it fair to say most men do it?

As for my men cheat, maybe some of them find it to be exciting. Maybe they have mates who treat them badly and they search for someone who will love them back, while they still have feelings for their wife or girlfriend who they don't want to lose.

[messimerk]

Well, I myself have cheated, multiple times, the crazy thing is I loved the women i was with. keep in mind I am 21 and wild. But i think men see sex differently than women do. i think women consider sex a very loving thing while myself  we men see it more of like a meaningless(at times) animalistic natural, nature of the beast sort of thing.

[smithjcsdfw]

What we really need to establish is that both sexes cheat.  So with that idea than comes what it really boils  down to is why does somebody cheat.  The obvious answer is because they want too.    Now why would they want to when they have a perfectly satisafactory spouse is because they  feel that they do not.  Or in some cases because they do not feel that they are being satisfied at home.  The most common reason is because the grass is greener on the other side.  And this is from somebody who did not cheat in over 18 years of marriage but was cheated on in the end.   Do I know why she cheated.  Nope cause cheateres are usually not too honest about why they cheat.  Best of luck on finding out why.

[cubarican210]

I think you should of just asked the question of why people will cheat. This is not something only men do and it should not be viewed this way. Some men do cheat on their wife/girlfriend/boyfriend, yes, but is it fair to say most men do it?

As for my men cheat, maybe some of them find it to be exciting. Maybe they have mates who treat them badly and they search for someone who will love them back, while they still have feelings for their wife or girlfriend who they don't want to lose.

Yes I know that both sexes cheat but I wanted to hear the guys perspective. I know pretty much why a woman would do it because I am a woman but I wanted to hear a man's point of view. That's why I said men only need answer.