Girls: have you been led on then left suddenly?

[Shutmeup3030150]

I have been unoffically dating this guy for a month now. He has another unofficial girl besides me too though. He made me think he wanted to be with me, he cared, blah blah blah. And then last night up and leaves saying he couldn't leave the other girl. Some important info on this girl: she lives in a different STATE, they've been having issues, she is unsure of what she wants. So I feel completely used right now, being left for a girl that most likely will leave or cheat on him anyway. Such a great feeling, right? 

[trujillo33]

I hate when that happens....some guys are just assholes!!

[gafee2001]

Sounds like you attributed more to the relationship than he did. Those sort of different expectations is exactly why you feel this way. In the future, it may be beneficial to make everyone's expectations a little more available to everyone involved.

[thetotalfool]

I've been lead-on and left slowly.  I just wish guys would be honest about how they feel.  If they don't really care, they shouldn't pretend to.   

[eSineM]

That's Life I read some where that s the reason alot of girls go gay hehe

[ancmetro]

      Left for another girl is nothing new. It happens everytime. You should keep your head up and put your life first.

[mrisha]

Oh definitely I have.  I was going out with this  guy for about three weeks and then nothing.  No calls, no text, nothing.  No explanation as to why, he just moved on.  But I later I found out he did that to a lot of unsuspecting women.

[Daneesa]

Oh, I feel that! I think most of us have gone through that at one time or another. Sometimes it seems (girls and guys) people prefer the unstable to the stable. I don't know if it is because they think they can help them or change them?