HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE YOU HAD INTERCOURSE WITH BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED?

[home_teachin]

People are such prudes. I don't understand why people get so riled up over a sex question. I think this question is "PG" . It's certainly nothing you wouldn't hear on a PG movie. Or even daytime TV.
As for my number...I've never been married and I'm 32. I lost my virginity at 16 and I really have never tried to count how many. I knew a guy once who kept a list. lol

[sh33ma]

my fiancee was my first

[celine0710]

0

[oldbuddy]

Just one, but I have been married twice. Hmmmm . . . maybe that was the problem?

[TaintedLust]

I'm not married but someday I will be. As for the question... My current boyfriend makes number 8 that I've slept with. We have a daughter so I foresee us getting married when we're both ready.

[klvcaudillo]

LOL if oldbuddy is answering then all is good.  I luv ya oldbuddy.  Okay lets see I was engaged twice before I was married and I had a couple of flings (keep in mind all before I was married) so that makes my total count (drum roll please)............ 5, but I only told my husband 3  SSSSHHHHHH! 

[comforte]

Of course I had sex before I was married, who didn't in the 70's  But why count? What is important is that once you are married, while you are married, it's only one.

[muush88]

OH MAN  if i tell ill be labeled   

[tzs]

You can't tell me out there in fusion cash land that all of the people who only had sex with their husband never experienced anything else BUT their HUSBAND???  WOW! I dated before I met my husband, because I needed to.

Once again, I will use my silly animal reference.

Female species in the wild will reject a male that they don't see fit to carry on their genes, so they pick and choose who they want to mate with and vice versa, until they reach a decision, but it is a process, and by no means perfect in any way.

I must know the answer to this...You must tell me..........

How is anyone going to purchase a car (used or not) without looking under the hood to check the wear and tear on the engine? Is that the only car they have on the lot to offer, or had you already made up your mind previously?  Sooooooooooo, this was the only type of vehicle that you've ever wanted  to own all of your life?? HMMMM? Lets see..... Have you just been set on what they've got to sell you, Or have you ever considered a different model??? Perhaps a  Dodge Ram Truck, maybe a Rock Crawling Jeep???  A Wench-rig??? Perhaps your'e a Conversion Van- *bleep* waggin- type??? Oh No??? How's about one of those ridiculous, tiny, polly-pocket-lookin, eco-friendly  -"I want to step on it, and smash it like a bug every time I see one!!!!"-  little nature-made type of cars??? How's about a different color??? Sparkles??? A much bigger, louder, more powerful engine? Never EVER??? How about a soft, quiet small engine, with just a small accelerator pick-up when you step on the gas?  Or do you prefer an electric hybrid???  Did you at least test a couple of other previously owned vehicles first? (safely, of course) Did you want racing tires, snow tires, or do yo prefer all terrain tires??? All of these questions are relevant, WHY??  (I am not selling you a car)

Experience. It's part of human nature, and although offering yourself exclusevly to that one person for the first time sexually your entire life is great, it goes against the instincts of our animalistic behavior, to explore and have options sexually before we settle down with the one, is NORMAL. Im pretty sure with the exception of some people on this planet that sticking with one person is exceptional, but sticking with one person who is the only thats been with you EVER??  Wow! And don't get me wrong out there, If you are married to the one who you chose to give your first and only sexual experiences to, and your'e both happy together as husband and wife, that's beautiful and I am happy for you, because relationships in themselves take a lot of work, and wish you all the luck in the world!!

Having Experience in that "area" should'nt be seen as a bad thing,  or shameful........

If you are a pro or a hoe, Completely Different Story!!!

In order to know the way, way, way, you have to walk the path...Hey, Hey, Hey!! (sorry everyone, really reeaallllyyy tired now, loosing my mind fast, or I've already lost it hours ago!!!!) :- I'lltry harder.....
 
(imagine a very distinct, distinguished,  Brittish scientist's voice right here....)
                                                                     
IN CONCLUSION...........

 I'm not saying you've buying (or bought) a lemon, but for my case,  I'm just saying: "Hey man, try some of those tangerines or limes first before you make a decision about the type of fruit punch your'e gonna be servin' !!!!"

I know this, because of experience......before I got married......and I am happy now..........All the way around my life........
Yay!

And if you don't know... Don't serve fruit punch warm, Keep it in the fridge until you are ready to put some ice(s) in it, and serve it on your own terms!!!! (yes, I am speaking in an absolutely ridiculous code about sex, so, so very sorry!!!!!)


 P.S. How many people out there know if their husbands took the sacred oath to save themselves for their wives???

-ooooooh noooooo, here we go again!!!

I hope i did't open up another can..........

[angel379227]

This is a stupid and immature topic! Reported to a moderator because it isn't PG! Read the rules!

What prudish people.

[Storm61115]

i have been with one other before my fiance. i didnt even "really" want to do it with the first. i was one of those girls that wanted to wait til marriage to do nething like that. but once i did it, there was no going back. u cant get ur virginity back, in no way. we started off as many couples do, we werent doing ne thing sexual, then 4 yrs goes by and we finally "do the deed" and it wasnt shortly after that we had broken up for the last time. he said it wasnt gonna be the last time but yes this was the last time and i thought we were going to be together forever sorta speak but he cheated and cheated and when i found out about it i felt used and when we broke up he used the excuse "you invaded my privacy" so i guess it was all for the best. i didnt think it was all for the best at the time but 6 yrs have gone by and i dont want him back. even if i did, he is married, and as far as i know he is faithful. i found him not to be my type ne more. i am very picky and i really didnt want to date him the very first time but i did and dumped him shortly after.. it is the last time when he decides he wants to marry another women without even really being "real serious" with u and asking u to marry him first. he didnt ask and we werent engaged. he was my first and u dont get over ur first so easily. so, now i am with my fiance and have been for 5 years. he has been with people before me but the way i see it is "experience". i cant judge him on that but i do judge the people he was with before coz some of them were not attractive. he was not treated as he should have been. i seen some things first hand before i got with him and boy oh boy. i love him alot and i dont want to ever leave him.

[misslwilliams]

...lol Im not married and still counting (and might I add proud of it)...dont judge me. :-)

[ODOMS6598]

My first husband was my 1st.