CHEATING

[TYSEAN22]

DO YALL THINK SOMETIME YALL GF OR BF IS CHEATING SOMETIME?

[lray3152]

It's tough to sometimes not let it cross your mind.  You need to be confident though in a relationship and if you do trust someone and they break that trust then that is their problem and it shows you are better off w/o them.  In relationships now, I pride myself on not worrying about that, because you have to be a person without care to be cheating, therefore I know I am the "bigger" person by not worry about it and not committing the act.

[rdevansii]

I think if you are feeling that way already, then your relationship is going to go downhill.  Talk to her if you feel that way.  If she is, better to learn in the early parts of a relationship than a longterm one.

[mrisha]

If you think your girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating, then they probably are.  Because if they've never given you cause to think that way then why would it occur to you that they are cheating.  People always give themselves away when cheating.

[camilo_0923]

i believe that we all have different needs! sometimes you are with the person for to long and everything becomes routine thats we people feel the need of cheating to adventure towards something exiting

[cowgirlx]

His dumb a## already has once.  Several years ago.  He has paid for it ever since.  We came to an understanding soon after.  He messed up once and chose to stay with me and pay for it. If he messes up again, he won't have the option again.  Everyone is right tho.  If you feel that there is cheating going on, it prob is.  I knew months before he finally came clean.  

[michealm1979]

ever think its just the person being paranoid because of a past relationship where the other cheated??
I had this happen to me and Im still with my now Fiance, she thought I was cheating, and found out that I wasn't.
She since has gotten couseling because it was causing a strain on the both of us. And everything is good now.
Doc said it was all because of several past relationships she had and her 1st marriage where her husband cheated on her.
Since the counseling she hasn't thought I was cheating on her again. Of which  I never would. And she now knows this.

[SenoritaLadyBoss]

sometimes i do.. i feel like i have to get over it..cuz if i keep thinking that way..it probly will happen..i just have ta choose my boyfriends better basically

[JessieKateRose]

I don't think mine ever would, and I know I wouldn't ever do that to him.

[AmyTrivitt]

I have never cheated on my husband and I know I never will. As goes the same for him. Although I do know people do change its just the communication and closeness level we share that does not make my mind wonder off into such nonsense.

[mommagoes]

i have never worried about that. in previous realtionships, i never cared enough about the other person to be concerned about it. and in my current relationship, i have complete trust and faith in the strength of the commitment between my husband and i. even when we were dating, i never worried about him cheating.

[Shutmeup3030150]

It depends on the bf/gf, sometimes, yes, definitely. With my last boyfriend, I didn't even consider it, because he just isn't the cheating type. The one BEFORE him, good god, I thought it all the time.

[tzs]

Being in a relationship means you have to go beyond your own selfish needs and rise above them, and it isn't easy. I think that is one of the reasons why people cheat.  That is why you should leave that relationship if you think you are unhappy and just settling. Of course, find out if its true, but that feeling that someone may be cheating on you is unmistakable, and if you keep going with it, it causes nothing but trouble and years of baggage.