HATING YOUR FRIEND/BESTFRIEND?

[babypolotb]

RIGHT NOW I FEEL LIKE I CANNOT TRUST THE PEOPLE I AM SURROUNDED WITH.  IT MAY FEEL STRANGE BUT WHEN I FEEL LIKE WHEN I AM NOT AROUND THEM, I FEEL THAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK AND ACT FAKE WHEN THEY SEE ME.  IT COULD BE SOMETHING THAT I AM DOING TO ANNOY THEM OR MAKE THEM MAD, I REALLY DONT KNOW.  HOW DO I CONFRONT THEM ABOUT THIS FEELING?

[Marissaj820]

Just ignore it, if they are talking about you let them. It just means your worth talking about. Ever heard the saying " haters make me famous "? Usually whenever I tried being mature and respectfully confronting whoever was spreading rumors/ talking about me, I'd end up In a huge fight because they'd get defensive because I called them out.  Where I live the school I go to have people with guns and knifes and all that crap so it can be really hard. I doubt that's your case but still, I just learned to let it go when people are talking about me. It doesn't matter. if they can't say it to my face then they don't have my respect therefor not worth my time.

Find someone different to hang out with if they are making it awkward for you to socialize with.

[lynnc35]

It may be, but if you can find forgiveness, you will be taking off the great big weight on your shoulder, let it go, you can forgive, that doesn't mean you have to take your friend back, or say it is okay what they done, forgive them for yourself. We can not expect forgiveness if we don't forgive others in the process, we all make mistakes somewhere down the line.

[gesus]

if ur having these thoughts , y not just take one of these friends of your to the side and tell them what you told us ? and plus theyre just friends , they can be replaced , they come and go as they please , you never kno ur instinct can become true , if that was the case the its an ugly truth and from the start they were not ur friends to begin with

[tsubasa731]

i'm sorry......i've had these feelings before too, why dont you just talk to them? if they refuse to do so, they arent worthy of being ur friend

[devideddi]

I have felt that way before and its not fun.  I think you should just be honest and ask.  Tell them how you have been feeling and ask if anything is going on  You should be able to tell from their reaction also. Sometimes even best friends need a break from each other once in a while.
But you gotta ask cause just thinking about it and worry will just make you sick and your imagination will go wild.
Good luck!