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Forp

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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #30 on: November 28, 2015, 05:08:30 pm »
people change over time.. .. who you were at 20 is someone very different form who you are at 30...circumstances change e.g. from rich to poor or poor to rich.  Kids or no kids or kids with serious problems or health issues change a relationship.  It doesn't seem so crazy to me.

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« Reply #31 on: November 29, 2015, 12:34:46 pm »
Why do people go cheat on their partner?

Every situation is different.  The biggest reason is people do not have morals and values.  It's the way the world is.  And it is considered no big deal.  If you are married and you separate most are dating long before the divorce is final.  That is cheating.  You are still married.

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« Reply #32 on: November 29, 2015, 12:46:19 pm »
That is true. Cheating is very common.

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« Reply #33 on: November 30, 2015, 11:28:36 am »
1. Because they're just natural born cheaters and nothing you do will ever be enough.
2. Because there are no real consequences.

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« Reply #34 on: November 30, 2015, 12:41:14 pm »
It is sad. If you have any desire to cheat than you shouldn't be married or in a relashinship,

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« Reply #35 on: November 30, 2015, 02:46:42 pm »
Hmm there's no excuse or real valid reason for anyone to cheat. But you will hear every excuse in the world why the person did. If you are not sure about he relationship a 100 percent dont even commit to anything like that because it isn't right to the other person who is in the relationship 100 percent becuase they usually get hurt the worst

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« Reply #36 on: November 30, 2015, 11:23:48 pm »
i don't know why but what i can't stand is when the person being cheated on has no back bone & continue to take back the SOB cheating partner!Me, there's no 2nd chances, once is enough!

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« Reply #37 on: December 01, 2015, 12:13:31 am »
I heard MoNeque has given her husband a free to cheat card but I feel if I'm commented to someone I should not feel so disappointed in myself that I would give something like that or vise versa. 
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« Reply #38 on: December 01, 2015, 06:55:30 am »
I think there are various reasons why cheating occurs.  Primarily, I think people who need constant validation from the opposite sex cheat.  I think people that crave drama and excitement and can't deal with the everyday portion of life cheat.  I believe people with high sex drives cheat because cheating also makes it more exciting.  I believe people who believe they can get away with it cheat.  On and on...

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« Reply #39 on: December 01, 2015, 06:57:43 am »
Because they do not respect them self,do not love the person in their life....i don't know if they deserve a second chance.

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« Reply #40 on: December 03, 2015, 05:37:32 am »
When I first heard this my immediate thought was that she has just resigned herself to thinking no man will ever love her enough to be faithful. 

I heard MoNeque has given her husband a free to cheat card but I feel if I'm commented to someone I should not feel so disappointed in myself that I would give something like that or vise versa. 

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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #41 on: December 03, 2015, 06:25:21 am »
Convenience, disatisfaction in their current relationship, ego

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« Reply #42 on: December 03, 2015, 09:17:04 am »
Because they think and feel the grass is greener elsewhere.  They cheat because they don't respect their spouse and because they are *bleep* mongers.  People cheat for thousands of reasons.  Pick one.
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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #43 on: December 07, 2015, 07:42:31 pm »
There is one theory that says cheating occurs from instinct. Women are looking for the best man to help her bear the strongest child. Men are looking to find a lot of women to create a larger family-strength in numbers. Some say that people cheat because they are not getting what they need out of a relationship or respect their mate too much to ask them for something that they want at the risk of offending someone that they love. Sometimes love starts to disintegrate over time as lack of appreciation for one another increases. People lose touch with all of the reasons that they were drawn to their mate to begin with. They start to concentrate on peripherals like their children and fail to take time to show their love.

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