What Would You Do???

[jessica2386]

if i had a million dollars i would buy me a nice car put me and my kids in a great home pay up bills for 3months and put the rest in the bank for a rainy day.

[snowprincess09]

i need some advice something thats really botherin me ........ okay i have my 2 yr old daughter and she goes to bed around 9 or 10 pm at night and i also have my 27 yr old boyfriend..... he tells me that he loves me and he loves my lil girl and etc. he works at a conveint store between the hours of 3 in the afternoon and he gets off at 11:23 at night.......... okay this is what bothers me... he asks me to go and pick him up at work at 11:23 at night but my daughter is sleepin........i have picked him up a few times but now it bothers me cause its late at night and my daughter is sleepin and if i tell him no i dont feel like going or i dont have the gas..... he gets mad and crap..... and then my family is another issuse . they tell me not to go after him just let him get mad and blah and blah........ what can i do about this situation? any suggestions?

[lynnc35]

Buy water wells, and mosquito netting and Bibles for the people in places without. I would help homeless shelters help others. I would buy a small house and then take my mother and grandmother on a cruise.

[pabpaj]

Well, a million dollars won't go as far as it used to in this economy!  I would need a few million to really enjoy life and be generous (once all my bills/debts are settled) so I could share it with my friends and family and move to Belgium or the Yorkshire Dales in northern England to retire!   

[pabpaj]

i need some advice something thats really botherin me ........ okay i have my 2 yr old daughter and she goes to bed around 9 or 10 pm at night and i also have my 27 yr old boyfriend..... he tells me that he loves me and he loves my lil girl and etc. he works at a conveint store between the hours of 3 in the afternoon and he gets off at 11:23 at night.......... okay this is what bothers me... he asks me to go and pick him up at work at 11:23 at night but my daughter is sleepin........i have picked him up a few times but now it bothers me cause its late at night and my daughter is sleepin and if i tell him no i dont feel like going or i dont have the gas..... he gets mad and crap..... and then my family is another issuse . they tell me not to go after him just let him get mad and blah and blah........ what can i do about this situation? any suggestions?

Dear snowprincess09:

If your boyfriend really loved you and your daughter then he would never even suggest that you pick him up so late at night when your daughter is asleep.  He'd find another way to get home (bum a ride from a friend or ride local transportation -- i.e., catch a bus).  He's only thinking of himself and not your or your daughter.  I would try to talk with him about this reasonably and if he can't see and understand your point of view then kick him to the curb and get on with your life until a better man comes along who will truly appreciate the love you and your daughter have to offer.  Best regards.

[snowprincess09]

 Dear snowprincess09:

If your boyfriend really loved you and your daughter then he would never even suggest that you pick him up so late at night when your daughter is asleep.  He'd find another way to get home (bum a ride from a friend or ride local transportation -- i.e., catch a bus).  He's only thinking of himself and not your or your daughter.  I would try to talk with him about this reasonably and if he can't see and understand your point of view then kick him to the curb and get on with your life until a better man comes along who will truly appreciate the love you and your daughter have to offer.  Best regards.
                     

                          thank you so much that does make me feel better......... peace 

[debraleesparks]

 :thumbsup:Live in San Francisco .. for a month!!!hahahahahahah

[jkhanson]

After falling over because I won a million dollars, I would invest a good chunk of so I wouldn't spend it all before I knew what happened to it.

I like the idea of paying off the house and any debt then moving somewhere warmer --

I'd share with our kids and our parents to make their lives easier too. 

[ahunter300]

if you think money - even a little additional here at FC is going to help - it will not - until you make a budget - it isn't the money coming in that is the issue - it is the money going out that is the issue - yet the stupids in our government have not figured that out - for that matter most have not figured it out - budget - budget - budget - if you don't know what you are spending then you don't know how much you need - the universe will only give you what you need - unfortunately, most do not understand money -  it isn't really taught or even encourage to learn about money - only how to spend - i've never had a need for money because i know how to make money - even in small amounts to very, very large sums - so you think $1,000,000 is a lot - well $1.00 is a lot when you have nothing - when you make every penny count you will always have money - never be a slave - not to money - to people - to things or to the government - learn about money - know how to make it - but most important know how to get your monies worth in life - IMHO >> In My Humble Opinion - The MUSEUM, Zazzle, deviantART, ArtFire, FineArtAmerica

[MrsTBarber]

If I had a million dollars the first thing I would do is purchase me a BRAND new car.  I would then have me a five bedroom house built and furnished.  I would then put money aside for my kids college, and if I had any money remaining I would put it into my savings account.

[Nightnaiad]

I would go to Antarctica.

[nauticalstar]

I would pay bills, pay back parents, donate to charity, buy expensive bags (a few). A five carat canary diamond ring, nice house on the beach and LIVE IT UP!!!

[mlsgrandma]

This is really a hard question. The first place I don't think that would ever happen. But if it did, without being selfish, I would do like most everyone else, pay off bills. I'd try to make what's wrong with the world right! I'd try to help the poor, and the homeless in our country. And help abused animals. There's so much wrong with the world that a million surely wouldn't cure it. 

[NNH87]

I would buy a house and nice piece of land. Get me a car, my man a truck, and save the rest.

[cjobey99]

Get healthcare I don't have now, help family, buy cottage near a quiet beach. Then, I would start my own stimulus program for the tired, weary people like me.