Girls dressing too sexy(or slutty)

[lvstephanie]

Not that a think that girls should dress provocatively because as a female I chose to not,

HOWEVER

I do think there is something to be said for a person being able to wear whatever they want without getting judgments like "*bleep*" assigned to them. This is exactly where the whole argument comes about women having to dress a certain way to not get raped. That is ridiculous! People should not feel the need to behave a specific way just so people will not rape them, or call them a *bleep*.

Im no raging feminist but I just think there are bigger fish to fry before tackling the way individual women dress

I might agree with this except that we are talking about a girl of 14, not a woman in her 20s. I know that this sometimes does lead to statutory rape. Imagine this 14-year-old going to a teen Halloween party. One of the bouncers / staff sees her and when he asks how old she is, she lies and says 18. Since she is dressed in a more adult fashion, he may not question whether she told him the truth and so they end up hooking up at the end of the night. I had a friend where that happened to him except that he was a senior in High School (that had turned 18 earlier in the year) and went to a teen dance at a local dance club. He hooked up with the girl after she told him that she too was 18 only come to discover that she was only 15 when her parents filed for statutory rape against him. Luckily for him they ended up dropping the case when she admitted lying to him.

[ljrjess69]

yep its pretty crazy these days!!!!!!!!!!! 

[sherryinutah]

I don't have a daughter; however, if I did I would do my best to teach her to project self respect by dressing modestly enough that she wouldn't embarrass herself or the people she interacts with.

 

[Timberlan127]

I definitely do not approve. I think at that age parents need to help their children make wise choices. When my daughter was that age she headed out with a short skirt a couple of times but I sent her back to dress appropriately for school. Kids will all try that kind of thing. But parents need to be prepared to enforce a proper dress code.

[6265AT99]

I do agree with you completely!!!!  It seems todays' parents are still not OLD ENOUGH OR WISE ENOUGH to have children.  Maybe they are too young or maybe they are into "fashion" a little too much!!!  Believe me they should know better!!!  No kid of 14 should be dressing like the models in magazines or the "hollywood bunch"!!!!!  Makes me wonder just how their children will be when that day comes!!!!!!!!!