the stupidest request I've gotten and other things

[march1971]

I love my Ghanaian girlfriend, but she gave me the most stupidest request: to keep our relationship hidden from men in Ghana. I think that is reeeealllly stupid. I am beginning to wonder if she is ashamed of me. one time I told a man over in Ghana who was engaged at one point to a model, and then I admitted to my girlfriend that I told him and she became unhappy with me. another time, I said hi to the Ghanaian model on Facebook, hoping that she would pop up, because I wanted to save the engagement between her and her man, and my girlfriend popped up and told me that she hates it when I write on other ladies' walls, and was basically reading me the riot act. anger over perceived forgetfulness is another stupid thing she does, but wanting the relationship hidden from men outside her family: reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaallly stupid. if another Ghanaian lady gives me a better deal at love, I will take it.

[mperez7372]

I am thinking if you would give another woman a shot at your love if you got the chance, you are not in the right relationship!!!

[kingozzy]

best not to be in contact with any other female while you have a girlfriend, makes them super jealous

[cowgirlx]

That sounds rough no matter who you are with

[BlackSheepNY]

I love my Ghanaian girlfriend, but she gave me the most stupidest request: to keep our relationship hidden from men in Ghana. I think that is reeeealllly stupid. I am beginning to wonder if she is ashamed of me. one time I told a man over in Ghana who was engaged at one point to a model, and then I admitted to my girlfriend that I told him and she became unhappy with me. another time, I said hi to the Ghanaian model on Facebook, hoping that she would pop up, because I wanted to save the engagement between her and her man, and my girlfriend popped up and told me that she hates it when I write on other ladies' walls, and was basically reading me the riot act. anger over perceived forgetfulness is another stupid thing she does, but wanting the relationship hidden from men outside her family: reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaallly stupid. if another Ghanaian lady gives me a better deal at love, I will take it.

More than thinking that she was ashamed of me, I'd be thinking more along the line of, "Is she married?"  I don't know any woman alive that would want to "hide" her relationship unless she was involved with someone else who shouldn't find out!

[babyturtles23]

I am thinking if you would give another woman a shot at your love if you got the chance, you are not in the right relationship!!!

Just what I was about to say! If you would be quick to leave her for another girl then you are not with the right person.

[msmoneybags48]

You are certainly in the wrong relationship if you are ready to get rid of your Ghanian girlfriend for another Ghanian woman.  What's wrong with American women?  For her to make a request like that, I smell something in Denmark, and it doesn't smell good.  I am not certain that she is ashamed of you, but what if she has more than you that she is roping into her net?  Sounds fishy and I would be careful.

[queenofnines]

This sounds like some Facebook scam and not a real life situation.

[sherri89101]

Have her spell out her ground rules then keep her or move to a new gal.

[Beckys0528]

Me personally I would move on but the best advice a person would give you is to follow your heart your heart knows what you want hopefully everything will work out for you.