the solution to my problem

[march1971]

I know of the solution to the problem with my Ghanaian girlfriend. am going to be questioning her and laying down rules. African ladies can follow the same rules in a relationship whether dating an American or an African, and believe you me, rules are going to be followed. also, when I receive her at the airport, I am going to have 2 Christians with me. we 3 are going to look over her documents, and if they are fake, she goes back to Ghana. I like dating African ladies, but if they screw up too much, then they need to be dealt with.

[msmoneybags48]

I hope that your relationship with this woman works out.  I say again, she sounds like a scammer to me.  I would investigate her thoroughly.  I dated an African man once that told me that men in his country are married to more than one woman.  I set that record straight; I am not going to be the main woman in a harem.  I sincerely wish you luck.

[tantricia44]

march1971~ hope she's legit! In younger days, I'd say you were way out of line & too harsh; but now a days, you have to check up on the person you hook up with. Whether from a foreign country or here; the person you lose your heart too could be someone that's not a good person. So, many times people find out too late that the one you fell for is not who they say they are. One example,is the cheating husband who lies & tells you he's not married. Or worst, you have a clean bill of health before you get intimiant w/the other person & you trust him to find later he has a deadly uncureable disease or virus!Ya, they say trust is love & if you don't trust someone you don't love them. Wrong, without trust there is no love & love is nothing without trust.But in today's world;Trust must be earned & it begins with you telling the person you like; the truth about you & that information should come through with no questions asked. Be strong & hope everything works out!

[melissaotto1982]

I hope it all works out and its a legit thing!

[davidf938]

I suspect that she may be the one choosing to get back on the plane!

[gaylasue]

Good luck to you.

[dreamyxo]

So your solution is to treat her like a lying child that must follow your rules or else?  Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. If she is a grown adult you can't tell her what to do. 

[nmsmith]

So your solution is to treat her like a lying child that must follow your rules or else?  Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. If she is a grown adult you can't tell her what to do. 

agreed... my advice.... let it go.....

[sarabtrayior]

You haven't met her yet and don't know if she's legit... let her go... before you get in trouble...

[mrisha]

I know of the solution to the problem with my Ghanaian girlfriend. am going to be questioning her and laying down rules. African ladies can follow the same rules in a relationship whether dating an American or an African, and believe you me, rules are going to be followed. also, when I receive her at the airport, I am going to have 2 Christians with me. we 3 are going to look over her documents, and if they are fake, she goes back to Ghana. I like dating African ladies, but if they screw up too much, then they need to be dealt with.

When I started reading this I thought: this is BS.  But as I continued to read I understood fully.  The men and women from Ghana are scam artists from the word Go.  I hope things work out for you but I would never put my self through such a trial.

[loulizlee]

My question is:  You have never met her and she is your girlfriend?  I was under the impression one had to know someone personally for them to be your boy/girlfriend. 

[march1971]

I know of the solution to the problem with my Ghanaian girlfriend. am going to be questioning her and laying down rules. African ladies can follow the same rules in a relationship whether dating an American or an African, and believe you me, rules are going to be followed. also, when I receive her at the airport, I am going to have 2 Christians with me. we 3 are going to look over her documents, and if they are fake, she goes back to Ghana. I like dating African ladies, but if they screw up too much, then they need to be dealt with.

When I started reading this I thought: this is BS.  But as I continued to read I understood fully.  The men and women from Ghana are scam artists from the word Go.  I hope things work out for you but I would never put my self through such a trial.

okay, that's not true. a majority of the citizens are law-abiding in Ghana and Nigeria. the true scammers are the Sakawa (witchcraft) boys. I have talked to many Ghanaian and Naija citizens on FB and never gotten scammed. my girlfriend there is a Christian. she has never pulled the "dead father, sick mother" scam. her father and mother are alive. she never told me that she is "from one state but in Ghana and/or Nigeria visiting". she has lived her entire life in Ghana, and if the lady loves you right off the bat, then it is a scam. my girlfriend, when we talked, told me that she loved me for two years. when I met her on November 19, 2010,
I told her that I was proposing to my girlfriend the following month. I talked to my now girlfriend during the marriage, but she respected that I was married. 2 months after my divorce due to my wife's infidelity, my now girlfriend wanted a relationship on the 23rd of Sept. 2012. I told her I would pray about it. on Sept. 30th, at 12:30 AM Indiana time, I asked her out.

[sherryinutah]

Time will tell.  Give her an opportunity to prove that she's honest and trustworthy as long as you've come this far.  Consider the fact that this relationship has the potential to be good for both of you if she is truthful.  If she's NOT...you can cross that bridge when you come to it.