Part of the way to lessen one's frustration is to understand how the different survey options work.
The FC Surveys use your profiles to try to match appropriate surveys. Either you do or don't qualify, plus most of the time you'll get the bonus DQ if you don't qualify. Once in a while something chokes on a survey here and there and I might not get the DQ bonus. If that happens, just roll with the punches - it happens, just move on. Often, I'm guessing the reason is some glitch in the return postbacks from the target survey lost some data due to upgrades or whatnot. If you do qualify - woohoo!
The other survey options are survey routers. What that means is they will send you a continuous stream of pre-qualifier questions until it finds your answers match the attached survey's pre-conditions. When you do, then you are routed to the survey and must complete that survey's specific qualifier, and if passed, then you finally get to the survey itself.
The trick with these routers is to recognize when it bounces you to a new set of pre-qualification questions. What I do is 3 strikes and move on to the next survey. Meaning if I get routed through 3 questionaires and disqualify, I move onto the next survey router on the page. Typically the surveys you'll most qualify for will be near the beginning, and the ones near the end are surveys where they are probably looking for very specific demographics so they'll be harder to qualify for. This strategy keeps me moving and on with my day. If you have the time, go through all of them until the router says it's out of surveys, or you get one you can complete.
Another thing - doing surveys is much like a lottery. The more you do, the greater chance you'll qualify for one. If you do one survey a day, you'll have less chance to successfully complete a survey than someone who tries 10 surveys a day.
If you are a member of other survey only sites, I recommend at least attempting to do any survey they email you. I believe those site do keep track of the successful surveys you complete, so when other similar surveys come up, the site will be more likely to give you first crack at qualifying for the survey. I've notice over the past few years, I'm tending to get more extended panel and at-home trial surveys which tend to pay more - as I'm guessing my successful work in the past highlighted me as a good "test subject" for these surveys. By ignoring too many surveys, you'll miss out on future opportunities like this - but it takes time to build your "cyber reputation".