im oh so jealous

[workmama]

Does not sound like a good way to start a marriage!! If you can't get over your ex. It sounds like you made a good choice to go to college, I hope you finished!! Go on with your life and forget about the ex. It sounds like your are starting a new life and be grateful!!

I agree here. If you still think of your ex and have feelings of jealously, sounds to me that you still have feelings for him. What about your future husband? It is not fair to him if you feel this way. I would hold off the wedding until I felt like I was content within myself. It still isn't late, if you love your ex, seek him out and tell him  how you feel. If not, move on!  Remember to always follow your heart, not go the way to make everyone else happy. 

[bigedshult]

just get over him or tell your friend how u feal.

[springsgardner]

Does not sound like a good way to start a marriage!! If you can't get over your ex. It sounds like you made a good choice to go to college, I hope you finished!! Go on with your life and forget about the ex. It sounds like your are starting a new life and be grateful!!

Never could have been said better! Forget about your ex. Obviously they are your ex for a reason!

I agree, forget about your ex. You're about to be married. If you still really love you ex that much, maybe you should postpone your wedding? I'd hate to read in a few years that you got divorced because thoughts of your ex didn't disappear. I'm sorry this is such a tough situation. There have been times when I thought about my exes in the past, but I am much better off with the guy I married back in 1995 and I'm still married to him.

I think you did the right thing to go to school, even if you flunked out and ended up in another college with a 3.47. That's to be commended. I really think that you can stand up straight and move forward. Still, I would tell your friend not to bring your ex to the wedding because that would make both you and your fiance uncomfortable on your very important/special/wonderful day!

[jarheadwife04]

Yikes!  If you are wishing that you could go back in time to be someone else that is one thing, but if your wish is to be with that person right now when you are engaged to someone else that is something else.