I didn't grow up going to church, and I wouldn't consider myself a religious person--but I believe that there has to be something that started all of this--the big bang couldn't have come from nothing! What I do know is that if you consider yourself a religious person, then bad things are just a part of life. I believe that things happen for a reason, and I like to take the positive out of every situation, otherwise life would be pretty depressing
Oh and anyone who needs to tell someone to "get a life" should worry about their own life and not everyone elses.