stuff on my mind

[berrie24]

Hey i'm new to this but i've been having a lot of stuff on my so pls give a lot of feed back so i'll kno how to handle. Ok first off if your boyfriend doesn't call you for weeks at a time but can get on facebook to talk to everybody but you. But he says he love you would it be considered cheating if you hook up with some one else. you see i have hooked up with about 3 dudes over the last few day and i feel guilty because i feel like i'm cheating on him. you see me and my bf have only met since we started dating 3 months ago and we have yet to have sex or kissed, or even hugged since we been together. he tells me that sex would change the relationship and he trying to get to kno me first. i have been losing weight and losing hair, i dont want to break no ones heart cause he always tell me how his other girls have done him wrong but i don't wanna do the same. so please someone please what should i do. i want out so bad but wen i bring it up he makes me feel so guilty that i end up stayin.

[CharmedPhoenix]

It seems you answered your own question.  You "want out so bad."  Guilt is no reason to stay in a relationship.  You have to do what's best for you.  You obviously want a different type of relationship than he does and aren't ready to settle down.  Eventually you're going to hurt him anyway, by hooking up with these "dudes," so get it over with and let him find someone who appreciates his approach to relationships.   

[cateyes1]

It seems you answered your own question.  You "want out so bad."  Guilt is no reason to stay in a relationship.  You have to do what's best for you.  You obviously want a different type of relationship than he does and aren't ready to settle down.  Eventually you're going to hurt him anyway, by hooking up with these "dudes," so get it over with and let him find someone who appreciates his approach to relationships.   

I couldnt have said it any better then charmed here  ...time to move on!!

[selene12171]

It doesn't really sound much of a relationship right now, you are both not serious at all and I think the word "Love" is being used too loosely. I think that if you do not want to be in a relationship, you should definitely break it off not before it becomes more of an obligation than a relationship. Plus you are seeing other people and it is considered cheating in the sense because you are both saying that you are a couple. Just sit down with him and break the news and be honest!! You will feel better in the end 

[cateyes1]

It doesn't really sound much of a relationship right now, you are both not serious at all and I think the word "Love" is being used too loosely. I think that if you do not want to be in a relationship, you should definitely break it off not before it becomes more of an obligation than a relationship. Plus you are seeing other people and it is considered cheating in the sense because you are both saying that you are a couple. Just sit down with him and break the news and be honest!! You will feel better in the end 

 

[berrie24]

Ok thank you every body i jus needed a confirmation on wat i needed to do.