u love someone else but ur married....

[juanita16]

what do you think the person should do when she's married and inlove with someone else... but she has kids to think about first than her ?

[lorettahknox]

I think that a married person who finds themselves in that situation should reacess the relationship they are in. What do you think is missing from the relationship you are in? The problem is that couples fall in and out of love all the time during the course of a marriage. If you claim to be in love with another person you are at least emotionally having an affair on your husband. (Not Good) Before you rip apart, crush kill and destroy what you have, you had better be sure of what you are doing! You made a commitment! Life is live it is not Memorex! There will be no do-over. What kind of a man would romance another man's woman? Think! Is that the kind of morals you want your children to have! I don't know if you have a son but, would you want his wife to do that to him! Think! It sounds to me like you have a crush not a love relationship! I have a crush on Hugh Jackman but I am not about to leave my reliable, dependable, loving, stable relationship to jet off and stalk him! Think! Your hubby is romancing you in the most beautiful way there is by getting up everyday, through rain, through hail, in snow through the storm. He is your prince charming everyday when the children need medical care and he's there fussing at the nurses to make the doctor hurry up. He is there for you when you see him get grizzly at someone who upsets his wife. Watch the roses fall from the sky when he sacrifices money he could keep to himself to pay the bills and buy clothes and food for you and the children. You think that he's not romantic anymore and so basically you've written him off. I say your prince is out there slaying dragons for you everyday and you're not seeing it! Look again hard! Look at his continuous abiding love for you and his children and understand that he is giving you all of his love worshiping you with his body and his mind so much so that you have time to dream. That is the best gift a husband can give. Ignore the fact that he may leave his clothes on the floor. Ignore the fact that he is not helpful around the house ignore all the BS and look at the real love he gives to you and you will see gossimer wings and roses and unicorns and lace and hearts and if you have an ounce of love in you, you could never break his heart. You already have a hero forget the zero. He is a bum and a thief anyway and now he is trying to become a home-wrecker and all he wants is to play king of the mountain at your family's expense. Dump him!

[Jlogan80]

I think if you find your self falling in love with someone if your married or even with someone you should really think of what you doing.  especially if your married or have kids with the person you are with cause then it does not just affect your will being.   Just make sure you going to be happy with the results befor you plung into another relationship cause you might hurt a great person for what you think is better and find out you lost something that was more better than you bargined for.

[dreamyxo]

You can love more than one person at the same time but in different ways.  The difference with marriage is that if you cross that line it doesn't affect just you.  Think long and hard what you will be giving up.  Be honest with yourself and your spouse.  Do you still want the marriage?  Do you still love your spouse?