"Breast Etiquette" - a question for the ladies...

[lorettahknox]

POST PIX OF YER *bleep*! *Ahem* Hello, fine ladies, girls, maddams, and etc. this is a slightly odd thread but seeing how I haven't made one in quite a while...

So I was in a small situation over a month ago when I was walking near a library. About 40-50 ft from me was this lone middle-aged woman who had a blouse on and she apparently forgot to button 1 or 2 of the top buttons. That, and her bra must have been awkwardly fit because one of her *bleep* was exposed.

Now there were a few people walking around the area, but I didn't want to either shout to her or run up to her lightening fast to let her know. I just hope she felt a temp change when she entered thru the door, but needless to say I still felt really bad for not helping her out of a possibly embarrassing situation.

I talked to my friend about it and he said he actually did help a woman in a similar situation, and she actually got angry at him and stomped off. He told me I made a decent choice out of the situation, but I still disagree to an extent.

Serious or funny, the point of this thread is to just hear your opinion on the matter-- do woman usually appreciate this type of a "heads up" or do they get mad most of the time? And no, it's not just for ladies to answer if you have a story of your own. I just noticed there are more woman than men on this part of the forum.
[I'm so sorry for you that you had to experience that moment of confusion and I'm sure it was very uncomfortable. You were in a situation that would make it appear to a less enlightened woman that you were leering at her. I'm saying that based on your description. Here is a good way to handle it without being viewed as a lecherous creep. Tell her you are very sorry, but you are exposed and whatever you do don't point, don't look at her *bleep* just gently tap your chest not hers and you may escape with your manhood intact. This is a very touchy situation requiring perhaps the skill of a secret agent or a navy seal do not enter without your self esteem intact (warning) this is dangerous terrain. Good luck Grasshopper! /quote]

[yellahammer09]

Well if it was me, I would want to know. I wouldn't want to unknowingly expose myself. I have guy friends that I can trust to tell me something like that and I would not get offended. I think it depends on how you let her know. If you say something like, I don't mean to be rude or disrespectful but...If she wanted you to see it, then she will probably blush and say thank you. If on the off chance you tell it to a real freak, she might throw you down and... I'm just kidding.  But I believe that most women would want to know.

[Jasmine81]

If one of mine's were hanging out I think that I would much rather have a friend tell me than a stranger.  But no matter who tells me (a friend or a stranger) I do not see myself getting mad at that person.

After all, they are just trying to help me.

Now if they do it in a mean or loud way, then that is a different story.

[BrokenBeautifully]

If I were in that sittuation then I would deffentally want someone to tell me! Yes, it would be really embrassing but it's better than having my *bleep* out for the world to see!

[Jazzzy231414]

I know I'd wat someone to tell me.

[kmbubbles2]

Depends on what  kind of lady she is. If she is dressing like that to get attention then she might not like it if you say something,but if she doesn't know that she is showing off the goods then she might be very thankful that you let her know she was showing all she's got

[lannl]

i would certainly want someone to tell me if something like this happened to me.

[Drea11301]

I think I would have told her her breast was out. I know I would appreciate someone letting me know if something of mine was out of place.  That's just like having something hanging out of your nose. Would you let the person know, or would you just ignore it?

[noossab77]

I don't think that the women are necessarily mad at the person who pointed it out, just embarrassed and freak out. 

[audreyprsns10]

I had a similar thing happen.  I was at a male friend's house who was sitting on the floor working on something.  He had a hole in in pants, and his unmentionable was hanging out.  I was too embarrassed to say anything, so I decided to just go home and not say anything about it.